Cool dude.

It is an abundance mindset. What's the point on wasting your night with girls who aren't interested. Its the same principle as a coffee meet; low key, either person can simply walk away if the other person is not what you want. It matters not. Its for the best.

Yet to try tinder. I think in the big cities it'd be cool but I can't see many girls using it in my area. Worth a look though.

Yeah my friend has used it to success in a smaller town! Do it!

Yeah but I'm wondering if i just put in more patience and persistence I'll still get laid. Like I'm in more a laziness, impatient mindset versus an abundance mindset. Not saying I AM but not sure. I've come out of a state of no transitory though and on the up and rolling.

I'd love to write up a field report but I don't remember too much of it. An impromptu night out with a mate. At first he felt like just two of us going to a club where we knew no one would be shit but a little convincing soon changed that. We went Manchester and yes, 5th Ave, on a Thursday; reliable, cheap and I know where it is. I remember being excited on the way to the club.

Inside I got chatting to two girls, one was interested, one was not, "Hey, you're enjoying this aren't you. . ." standard. The friend is like "Come on cindy lets go dance", cindy's grabbing my hand telling us to come with her and dance. Probably should have spent a while with them and joined them. As my main goal is to stay with girls. I have ADD or something, my attention span is my enemy within.

I busted on girls all night about being out on Valentines day eve. This was obviously hilarious for them. On the dancefloor a girl looks at me, I smile, I pick her up and start semi-tossing her. Her friends love it and are sorta making me do it haha then we make out. Her friend drags her away. I should have followed up. Need to be a bit more tenacious and staying with the girl. Stay with, spend time, isolate/you+her type vibe, hang out. Innit.

That was me not particularly drunk but after this I don't really remember too much. Used Jaz' "Can I watch you poo" line to girls walking towards the toilet (whilst im walking with them).

Girls: "yeah come with us". Hahahahahah Didn't even know what to do with that and stopped at the toilet door.

Then made out with 3 or 4 fat chicks through out the night. But kinda walked off. Short attention span and wasted is not good for my f-closing. But staying in set/ pulling each girl is my aim. Until it becomes unconscious competence so I can do it whilst smashed, for all you nerds out there.

Then when the club closed and we were outside waiting for a taxi and getting food. I was pretty much an anti-social wanker to half the girls or too drunk to remember I'd already spoken to others or carry on a real interaction. Yeahhhhhhhhhhhh.

And my mate took a shit in an alley which I was all casual and normal about because I was so fucked.

"Im going for shit down here hold on"
"Cool man"
*3 minutes later*
"I just shat in an alley what the hell"
"Yeah cool, did you wipe"

And some reason I was convinced the taxi driver was called "Josh" even though he was a Sikh, in full Sikh gown, beard, language barrier and him going "me not Josh".. Drunken Shah replying "Huh Josh what? Thanks for the lift mate." numerously.

I hope the bugger wiped his arse before getting in that taxi... rough!

I particularly like this bit. Ace.

I do bootcamps.

He claimed it was a free runner. No wiping needed

A clean drop... nice.

For me there are three types of girls:

- Meaningless ones. These are girls you speak to for the hell of it. Whether its to socially warm up, banter, practice, trolling or trying something new. It doesn't matter whether they like you, you like them or they are even listening. On a night when I'm feeling decent, I have been known to approach women and have an entire conversation with them after they have already turned away. Its just funny. This category the girls may as well be inanimate objects (I mean most girls are anyway, right?).

- Fun ones. These are girls you might have a great conversation with, make-out with, mingle, etc etc. You act a bit more real and more 'authentic'. On some level you are having a real interaction. But you wouldn't take them home for whatever reason; time of the night, attractiveness, you just get on socially not sexually.

- Proper girls. They are the ones you actually want to bone. More precisely; girls you will try and bone. Quite often the only difference between this category and category B is alcohol consumption, timing and circumstances.

A random, not-so-serious thought I was having after always hearing PUA theory always categorise girls in how girls see you rather than how you see them. And I'm totally opposite.

This is similar to my experience, for what it is so far. What you learn is how to gauge the level of attraction and which category the girls are in as you interact with them. There's not a zillion different types, there's only a few. I can walk away if I'm not that keen.

I've noticed that as I go on with this I'm getting bolder and it's more about me approaching just to work out if I like them or not rather than approaching with the "empty cup" and trying to fit myself into what I think they want, or really caring what they think of me.

It's a better mindset to develop and one that most guys don't have.