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20-11-2013, 03:59 PM
Day game today
Today i went to the library, got some lunch and i had a dander around town. i hadn't approached for 3 years so i was feeling abit nervous about my 1st attempt at day game in ages. i spotted a hot girl working in a shop and i just couldn't bring myself to approach, this happened twice and i got annoyed at myself. Then i went into another shop and spotted a blonde i put off approaching her for abit then i said fuck it and i walked over and said, excuse me i just had to tell you that you look fantastic today, she was abit shocked and said sorry and i told her again! she smiled and said thankyou, i don't feel it iv'e been working since 7, she asked me where i was from and what i was doing in preston. Which was promising, we chatted for a minute or two and i left. i probably could have chatted to her for longer but it was my 1st approach and i felt abit nervous during it. i then went into a different shop and i spotted a tall blonde browsing at the clothes. i approached and said excuse me i just noticed you, and i had to tell you that you look stunning. she was suprised and smiled i introduced myself and found out her name. and found out she was latvian and we just chatted about what she was studying and stuff. i again probably could have talked to her for longer. she didn't ask as much qs as the 1st woman. I was happy to get back out there and approach twice, that was my goal just to do it. The more i do the more comfortable i will feel. the approaches went quite well and i will probably be able to get a few number with more practice and staying in the convo longer. does anyone use playful or funny openers during day game?. I felt like saying to them has debenhams not gave you a modelling contract yet.     
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20-11-2013, 08:03 PM
I don't think the opener needs to be too clever / funny. If it just comes out, off the cuff, then fair enough but otherwise I would keep it as simple as possible. All your doing with the opener is giving them the signal that their about to be engaged in conversation by a normal person, albeit a stranger. I think as you get good the playful side will come out as you relax more.
I think because it's so unexpected in the day she's probably forgotten what you said in opening within a few seconds anyway. It's how quickly you can settle into the convo that makes the difference. I found I was getting more nervous as the convo progressed instead of more relaxed, then bailing, like you are doing. This is a result of going inside your head and not being fully present in the interaction. But I think that was just down to me not doing it enough. I'm trying to strike up convos with strangers when I'm going about my normal day until it becomes more normal to me to do this.
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23-11-2013, 01:35 PM
There is no best way, or best time. Sometimes I've had a 30 second conversation and grabbed their number as they had to go, more usually it's been a 5 minute interaction and then I've suggested we should meet up, so I grab her number.
You'll find the best way for you once you've tried it a few times.
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24-11-2013, 02:40 PM
Last Night
I headed out last night with ninja into town we chatted for a bit at the pub and then moved onto a club. the club was pretty quiet and ninja opened a 2 set and then we moved onto somewhere busier. I got a drink at the bar and i opened a petite blonde at the bar with a direct opener and chatted about uni she was quite receptive but her friend was waiting for her so we chatted for a minute. me and ninja then hit the smoking area and i opened a blonde and a brunette with ninja opener we thought you girls look social so so we came to say hi. The conversation went well and we chatted about travelling and things for at least 5-10 mins. It was still quite early in the night and we didn't use any kino. i should have number closed the girl as we had a good convo and things in common. we then went back inside and there was 2 girls bending down picking their drink up that they had hid behind a table. ninja said to them you can see everything lol and they said to me are u irish and 1 of them said i love your accent and kissed me briefly on the lips and said come find me later. we went back inside and i opened a girl at the bar and said i had to tell you that you look fantastic tonight. ninja winged me and chatted to her friend and we sat and chatted to them for a good while. i said to her on a scale of 1 to 10 how good a kisser are u and she said 9 i said prove it but she didn't seem up for a kiss, mabye i should have just went for it. anyone got any tips for k closing? i got her number and we had a good convo. ninja was getting on well and k closed his girl. we had a good night and some good interactions. i need to escalate more and use more intent but i opened well so it was a good start  .
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25-11-2013, 10:55 PM
Yeah it's usually better to just go for the kiss instead of verbalising it, she will be able to sense your intent regardless of whether you verbalise it anyway, there like literal ninjas haha. Was still a decent night, we can just focus down on our areas for development and sooner or later you're a pimp :P
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26-11-2013, 01:35 AM
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But I'm tryin' to give you a million dollars worth of game for $9.99
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04-12-2013, 07:15 AM
I met up with the girl i had met on my last night out. We went to a bar for a few drinks and she was looking stunning just as i had remembered her. We had a good chat about uni travelling and were getting to know each other. I was sitting across from her but i think i should have touched her more, eg held her hand. We did kiss at the end of the night when the taxi dropped her off. I haven't heard from her since which is a little bit strange when we got on well, but sure.
I also met a girl from pof for a coffee which turned into going for a drink after and ended up being a 7 hour date lol. We were getting on well and had quite alot in common. we kissed outside the bar and then a never ending one at the train station. I have arranged to meet up with her again.
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09-12-2013, 11:05 PM
Saturday night,
on saturday night i headed out with my mate into town it was great to see him after a long time. we had a pint in a bar and my friend spotted a blonde he liked, i encouraged him to talk to her and he went in direct and got a kiss. we moved on up the street and we got chatting to some women outside, i said where are you going out going tonight ladies? and they asked about our accents. we chatted for abit and moved on. we hit another bar and got chatting to two blonde sisters at the bar and we joined them at their table. i had a gd convo with one of the blondes and she told me she had a kid etc, when we were going to head on to a club, i asked for her number and she said she didn't give it out, said not even for me and we left. Hit the club and things got abit hazy later on. i chat to a girl at the bar who tells me i didn't study a real course lol. chat to a group of geordie girls and go to the smoking area and then she introduces me to her boyfriend supposedly lol, i chat to her friend then go back downstairs. i spot my mate and hes pulled. go to dance and make eye contact with a cute petite girl, walk over wink and start dancing with her. we danced for ages made out and sat and chatted. i said to her il walk you home but she didn't seem up for a 1 night thing. i got her number and we went out own ways. It was a really good night though  It seems to be a sticking point for me i can open well but mabye i'm not showing enough intent, or mabye the girls i've met are wanting something else. any advice?
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