Openers? l use 'hi how are you?' Everytime. Yeah get on it namesake, download the app and it should go through it with you.

Nothing personal to you dice but I hate this idea of good/bad openers. There's just being social versus anti-social.

I'm gonna get onboard with this too now i'm free and easy. I think when I did dating sites in the past, it was a disaster as I was trying too hard to be witty. Perhaps that's why just 'being social' works over any 'opener'.

How is this day game challenge progressing?

Nah I dont enjoy DG, I like the idea of being able to chat up girls you see in your day but not walking around all day doing daygame. Ill stick to night time

Do you think you will be able to achieve this without getting out there and putting in the practice?

I don't think the only way to be able to speak to girls you see through-out the day (and in social circle for that matter) is doing the typical daygame outings.

I agree, it isn’t the only way, and doesn't have to be done full stop, hence my question I suppose. From my point of view getting out there and challenging myself for hours on end has helped me progress and learn so much. What used to be scary, is now actually fun. It’s not for everyone obviously. A new challenge for me, now I’m back in the game, will be getting out in the bars and clubs. This will be scary to me.

On that note, I'm going to start writing up field reports again. I know everyone has missed them, I bet Kowalski hasn't been able to eat his morning toast without my field reports to read.

I don't think they eat much toast in the morning in Spain.

The soundtrack to my field report should be an MOP track. Met a girl off tinder, within 6 minutes of meeting her, I already tried to fuck her. At least I don't have closing problems with girls that I know like me when isolated. But she was black, well half black, and she was all "Hey you gotta chase me, put that work in, im hard work baby but im worth it" Hmmmmm hate that shit. She even said she loves to tease and play the game. Told her I dont play that shit and she's gone down in my books.

Then I started being a twat by saying "Its cool. Don't worry. I understand. You're inexperienced, sexually naive, frigid, scared. Im intimidating I know. But I won't judge it". I repeated this for what could have been an hour (Seriously) until she started shouting at the top of her voice - with all her house mates around who were trying to listen in on us - "NO! NO! NO! I just need time, they call me the D' hunter, I love to suck dick, I'm good at it. you're just really intense, we've known each other 2 hours okay!!". She repeated that for like 30 minutes. It was a musical call and response structure only more magical and poetic.

I found on tinder you have to put a LOT of message work in as girls are a little nervous to meet up. Anyone else noticed this or am I making an erroneous conclusion? That's my big words for the day! She met me but only after tonnes of messaging, like you have to develop a gay little all-dayer messaging thing, a little bubble.

At night I just need to stay in there I think and approach more. Approach the girl I like, stick in there and escalate/close. Simple. Social vibe. Sometimes I forget to add the social part in when Im focused on closing haha.

Saturday night just been was quite funny, me and Jaz speaking to some girl and she made an observation about me to Jaz, "He's really sarcastic isn't he?", 3 minutes later I hear her say to Jaz, "You're very confrontational aren't you?" hahahah us in a nut shell.

Another thing I've noticed is I'm very 'whatever' about whether girls want to get with me or not. I always tell girls "Cool, you can go if you want" or "Do you want to be here/get with me? You're allowed to leave", "hey lets just be friends if its like this. . . ". Dunno if its abundance mentality or lack of tenacity. Girls seem to love it when I'm properly hanging out/with them. Maybe after the hook point and shit.

Need to not wank. So hard not to!! Will get phone internet to block it. Its not that it necessarily helps pull, definitely made sex and head feel better though, but its an experiment. See what not wanking does to my game. Approach more yeah, towards the end of the night I always get tired or not feel as party'e'y as the rest of the club. But thats the point I can probably find good quality women; desperate sluts who are actually up for it.

Should be meeting another Tinder girl on Saturday. Still main focus should be night time. Go out to socialise and pull. Stay in set.

Edit; About the black thing. That was something jaz was saying and I didnt believe it but she was like "You dayum straight he right. We are and we proud.". After I was like "My friend said something about this. . . uhh how do I put it". Im no racist.