We've been here before. The impression you give of yourself to others, be it an internet forum or the world itself, rests on your shoulders.

Have we been here before? I think we should see other people then

I hope this post to be the beginning to the rest of my life! It probably wont but I've started day game with Luthor and once I get over the initial hump I can't wait to get full swing into it. I remember having a conversation with Goodrebel about how its funny you can get annoyed with not approaching whenever you see a girl. I know I'll get day game under my belt within a few months. And in night time Im going for numbers as I've actually had great results off numbers from night time activities.

For me the same night lay is my aim but I think getting used to just pulling in general is important. Instead of never getting the number, I will get it if they're (or I) are about to go.

Social circle Im not very good at. . . which is a shame as Im at university haha. Oh well I guess. I guess I really wanna be that image we all have of our preferred selves in our day dreaming, but not the balls!

This is perfect for how I'd like my Sunday mornings:

HIMYM 7.season|Barney- Wazzuup !!? CZ - YouTube

Quick update: After I get uni work out the way (binge through it!) Im going to do a few all dayers on DG), still going out with Luther on that, night times I'm making sure that Im definitely more on the sober edge. I mean I've known for a while that is where I do my best 'game' but I also do like to go out and get wasted, Im 22, but now I think its time to use my nights out as effectively as I can: So not being too drunk even on my 'party nights'.

Get in 2-3 day game sessions each week and 2-3 night game sessions. I was actually thinking of near-dropping night game apart from when I have nights out with mates but friday and saturday made me realise why the fuck I was out!

Make my nights and days out more efficient and productive. Keep that sole goal in mind. But the three things to remember; hotter girls, isolate/escalate, #close. Sole goal is isolate/escalate!!

I went through a cycle of thinking too much about the approach, like I got really good at it that I almost stopped wanting to do it unless I felt it would go alright such as the situation itself, their height, hottness etc but Friday and Saturday taught me that was all in my head.

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I got chris to approach these two hot girls who were at a 'difficult' angle to approach due to the clubs layout and how they were facing. He ejected soon after or got blown out. THEN another random (probably PUA by the look of him) approached and was quite possibly the worst approach ever done ever EVER. I couldnt hear but I was cringing. And I thought to myself "I wonder if I can go over and smash it" and all of a sudden I was getting AA. I realised I'd recently been thinking too much about success; before I was so happy i could even approach I'd approach almost anything. Then I realised it'd be hilarious if I did it to see what happened, girls being approached by three guys in three minutes. I strolled up after a deep breath and walked over. It went really well actually but I didn't ISOLATE the girl who was interested duuuuuuhhhhhhhh. Fucking muppet.

I noticed something about me too, when a wing-man comes in I don't like it when they do the traditional "hey want a drink mate?" or any excuse. I'd want my mate to stroll up and be like "how are these guys" or start talking to me. We're far too cool to need excuses.

Anyway after that I realised approaching ain't shit, if I don't do an approach you can slap me. I will approach anything in the club. I mean I've sorta known all this and acted accordingly but something 'clicked' last weekend. And I need to keep following through on the leads I make rather than going around being some maniac party animal which I occasionally do.

I think it would be funny to get you to approach a more difficult target than a hot girl, I mean a hot girl is anybodies game, anybody is capable of that (some more than others I'm not knocking down anybodies ability). Approach an unlikely target. A bouncer, or a stripper, bar tender or another PUA lol!

Haha or approach myself, that'd be scary. Its why I think you are all cool guys, having the balls to be near me.

And of course, your modesty...

I helped an female friend get laid last night and its freaky how they're no different from guys about it all. I know its old PUA knowledge and its not a big surprise to me but when they're saying stuff like "Nah you want a hot guy who's up for a fuck" and "Yeah he was really drunk but who cares" (in reference to whether she 'took advantage' of him).

Its one of those things where you already know it but that night just stuck out to me for some reason. Also I realised what its like to be on the other side of a 'mixed set'. I felt quite protective even though I wanted them to meet a good guy.

Next night out I will try. Even if it ruins a good old friendship. This week I have 3 essays to hand in by Wednesday and Friday, plus a presentation. So naturally im going to go out 5-6 nights and focus on cloooooosing with persistence. Will be some solo sarging. New years resolutions coming up too.

Missed me? I have.

A new year and a new self, new person, this year is the year to make a change and......haaaa fuck off. Im going to not spend like a monkey, do my uni work, hit the gym and go on the pull loads. Fuck all the gay shit. Read more. They're hardly new years rezzies, but what I wanna do anyway. Will start posting up field reports again. Had some mental nights recently.

My aims on nights out are now; be serious, direct, escalate, stick with them. Last night on NYE I did all of that apart from the sticking with them part. Took two girls home in the past week, got two dates lined up (one hot, one. . .nice tits?). I dont care I just wanna get closing into my brain.

Best new years night yet too because of the socialising ive learnt this year (makes me sound like a special) but I lost all my mates who were fucked, so was I, so I spent half the night by myself chatting to everyone; had a girl bent over in the middle of the bar dry pounding her haha oh dear. Made about 5 best mates, met a girl whose job is to cut off penguin's arms for some silence-of-the-lamb reason. Ive even started to be a bit more adaptable with each interaction, girl, night. So yeah stick with girl, serious, direct, close, escalate, persist.

Will re-read all this tomorrrow when im not so dead. Peace, love, fuck, cunt.