I read it. I'm sure other people her read it. And as long as you keep posting, you (and us) will see your progress and it will inspire people to do the same. Happy trails

ha ha good work. I'm seeing progress!!

Thanks SmileyK and Sapmi!

Jaz, after I left Manchester to go back home I pretty much stopped this, even though I posted on here there wasn't much to tell, wasn't till I started going to the SS and hanging out with J i started to do this again.

Will post about the bigger picture in due course as there's plenty to mention, good and bad.

Now I'm not so hungover thought I'd mention lessons i learnt from the passed 2 nights.

- Get moving, standing, dancing and I'll feel more in the mood for socialising, approaching.
- Get drunk for clubs.
- Ask wingmen/friends to point out girls for me to approach. Dont know why, but it's best thing that's helped me overcome my AA.
- Chat about w/e. Anything.
- Touch/kino on the open.
- Get sexual, show intent
- Find out how to deal with 2sets, I seem to always get great interactions with them but I can never take it anywhere being 2 girls and 1 me.
- Start conversations evvvvvverryywhere, the night is never over, even in the day the night is still on.
- Wings/friends interested in this is insanely crucial, if not the most basic and important foundation of it all.
- Flakes are random, i #closed a girl on friday and it seemed like a waste of time but I went through with it as NOVA mentioned how you literally have no idea which ones wiill flake and which ones wont, so I took that thought and texted the girl. We got a little date this week. Thanks Nova! Thats another thing you've helped with once again :P


Those were random stream-of-consciousness random notes I had.

One of the big lessons has been the need to take action to improve your situation. In terms of girls, I have to be completely honest and say that progress has been slow. However, the difference in the last few weeks is that I have learned to accept this; before, I was going out feeling 'under pressure' to Game, which wasn't helping at all, whereas now I am more relaxed.

Pickup has filtered through to other areas of my life; I am currently looking for a new job, plan to move out in the summer, and have taken up a new hobby in the form of skiing. Pickup is like a hobby, I do want to improve faster though and that means more going out (being a teacher, the summer holidays will provide ample opportunities to do this).

I'm still not getting the calibre of girl that I want, and this a negative, but at the same time I know this is because I need to push out of my comfort zone. This is my next challenge; that, and continuing to be a positive influence on those around me.

Nice Smiley, good to hear its had a positive effect on your life!

Went out Tuesday night Koosday, met up with Ali who's here for a week and also some friends from uni to go there.

Had a date before which I learnt a few lessons from so i couldn't get drunk until we got to the club which sucked.

Once we were in I couldn't get drunk, was meant to be just a night out too, no game, did a few approaches even though I was sober. My first app went aiight for the few minutes i was in there but blew myself out for saying some stupid shit. It happens. Or maybe not stupid shit but just not her taste.

Few others but nothing hooked until then I felt sober, tired and defeated like the club had won or something ridiculous. Think I'll start going there more often as it was the toughest club I've ever been to! Feels like a challenge now.

Lessons from date: Shoulda been a bit more sexual, shoulda been somewhere near hers or mine and then pushed it towards that, shoulda cut space/proximity more. It felt way too 'date that leads to nowhere' even though you're having good conversation.

Logistics + intent. Intent is my focus point for this month anyway so that's okay.

Out tomorrow too

Been out the past 2 nights, Thursday was after improv and it was a good night out but cut short by me going home with a fatty, lesson learned; don't go home with them, it ain't worth the effort.

Spoke to some redhead sitting down for a while too, it was good convo but I didn't go sexual/escalate and I fucked it up. Also met 2 guys trying to bring pipes back in fashion and i wish them well on that endeavor.

Friday night I wasn't feeling it, hadn't slept the night before (you try sharing a single bed with a big gal) and I was walking around by myself most of the night. I sucked and did awful. Barely approached. 2 best interactions was a Spanish chick who was by herself and 3 asian girls who i spoke to for ages.

I need a job, I'm out of money, can't afford to keep this lifestyle up anymore.

Need to step up tonight, was way too in my comfort zone, like not approaching because I was nervous wtf thats bullshit.

Well rested and a productive day ahead, tonight is it.

+ Going to chat up girls during the day more now, like some long ass daygame etc

Went out to meet Jynx and Ali, so i started pre-drinking on the train, it was nice and early we met.

Go for a pint in the Grand Central which is the dirtiest place I have ever been in, maybe the worst place i have ever been in. We bought food and gave money to some homeless guy and killed time until Ritz opened.

FINALLY it opens, we queue for 15 minutes or so after waiting half hour to get in the queue eventually making our way to the front:

Bouncer (To Jynx): Could you step to the side please, not tonight mate
Jynx: Whats up?
BOuncer: This is punishment for last week
Jynx: What did I do?
Bouncer: You pissed were pissing. . . in the doorway to Ritz telling me to fuck off because you don't come here anyway

Hahaha fucksake, love that he was just getting punished not banned.

So we mooch on over to 5th Ave, its nice and quiet but building up in there, lots of hot girls too, chat shit and J starts speaking to some girls - i come in and wing but being the first set of the night I was awful haha its gotta be that way at the beginning.

Right I just realised I don't have too much memory of what happened from here (10:30) till like 3am but I remember going around wasn't approaching too much but I was doing my thing, smoking area chatting, me and J winding each other up, towards the end I started to 'approach properly'. Need that push from a wing still.

Then I remember speaking to some girl and her friend said she was a tranny - stupid cockblocks - anyway i made out with her about 3 times as i saw her and then felt her Adam's apple FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKK a hot tranny. Then my opener was just "I think i made out with a tranny, am i gay?". 90% sure it was a tranny, i was wasted so it wasn't exactly Poirot on the case.

Went AXM and I'm mingling a lot better, probably not as well as I remember FUCK I really don't remember much. Chatted to some gay people which involved me saying "Not that im homophobic or anything" + me and Jynx acting like bender's to gget it in HAHAHA this might be one of the best parts of the night just some Bouncer going "Where you been tonight?", us "5th Ave . . . meeting some guys, we're soooo silly!". Its funny because AXM is a good laugh which you wouldn't expect.

In the quiet area jynx pointed at some girl walking, i stroll on up, make out, pull her to the sofa, then outside "Where you staying tonight? Come mine", her, "Okay" then her 6 friends come along leaving the club and she's gone; got her number and texted her today.

I mosey on over to J speaking to 2 girls, he tells me to go away so i was thinking "Ohhh maybe he's got some shit going on or some 'interaction 'too advanced' for me " or something random but i overhear him declaring "You've never had dick? Its awesome, you'll love it" then he tells me one slapped him and they're near-by like "Sorry!", I look at her (and i think im pretending to gay, maybe, not sure) and sincerely tell her "You know, he spends every Tuesday and Monday helping out at homeless shelters and little sick kids" i spin around to him explaining how he's a dating coach to her hahahaha and now he's the CEO of some charity too. wtf.

Go inside I speak to another girl and make out again, same type of deal as earlier, was sick and she was hot too but then it fizzled out or friends or w/e cant remember.


Try to make out with a lesbian, bit of dancing, little adventures going around, lose Ali,, we leave looking for somewhere open and we decide to carry on drinking and do ADVANCED DAY GAME.

ADVANCED DAY GAME is when you're an mpua and you don't go home and walk around the city centre doing day game and have Jynx just shouting "Do you even lift bro", he got some fine girls number from it too, nearly gets into a fight and we make some friends with guys who let us drink Whiskey with them in Picadilly station and we go home.

Feel like shit now, realised i must have spent all of 5th wondering around by myself (chatting to people too) w/o J and Ali wtf.

One of the funniest nights out I've ever been on, if there was somewhere to drink we woulda carried on doing DG, I was sobering up at that point though.


Funnily enough apart from all the random stories and events and trannies I did learn quite a lot lmao.

Edit: does this even count as a field report haha

lesson: if J can get a girls number with his main vocabulary and topic of convo being "Do you even lift bro" whilst steaming at 7am in the street then 'what to say' may not be too important

Okay, I've decided to add a new thing to my routine. I'm going to add 1 approach during my day in general as, i don't know about anyone else, this is sorta what i always wanted from Pick-Up.

So to do this I need to be out the house a lot. In the library or coffee shop doing work and speak to girls i like the look of. Simple. Oh and be dressed prime.

It may take me hours to actually do one though haha and I'll have to start off gay by writing a note or getting a friend to tell them i like them for me but its at least a start. Progressive desensitisation and all that.