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D!ce · 07-04-2013, 10:40 PM

In fairness, I was far to drunk to even stand up straight, let alone wing haha! My presence would have probably been negative...

nova · 07-04-2013, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Shahanshah

I thought everybody were great wingmen personally.

Like I said. I don't think you understand what a wingman is meant to be.

Let me elaborate. Jaz pointed out an Asian girl who was stood with a male friend. I approach and chat to them both. Then, the guy drags the girl away after a minute. What do you think would have improved my situation?

Shahanshah · 07-04-2013, 10:44 PM

Going over to a non-asian :P

nova · 07-04-2013, 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by kowalski

What shit is this? You can get pissy with people for stealing chicks off you, but if your mate just fucks shit up by being rubbish or fails to help you out it is not appropriate to have a go at them for it.

Where did I have a go at him? I see plenty of abuse from you two though.

Shahanshah · 07-04-2013, 11:45 PM

I didn't say anything Ash even after you made a little snipe :P

nova · 07-04-2013, 11:51 PM

Fuck sake. It's not rocket science. Everyone has had the issue of the girl's mate dragging your girl away. If that's not the way you roll having all met on a PUA forum then I'm surprised.

Shahanshah · 08-04-2013, 12:04 AM

If it was me I'd be happy Jaz (or anyone) pointed a girl out for me, especially if I had a particular fetish like you as it meant they were obviously in your best interests and took time to think about you.

Maybe no one saw you talking to her?

You should have said "Come wing me" nobody knew how you wanted to play it or what the situation was if they did see; they were getting on with their night too

I don't really hold any expectations of anyone when I'm out but that's just me

nova · 08-04-2013, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Shahanshah

If it was me I'd be happy Jaz (or anyone) pointed a girl out for me, especially if I had a particular fetish like you as it meant they were obviously in your best interests and took time to think about you.

Maybe no one saw you talking to her?

You should have said "Come wing me" nobody knew how you wanted to play it or what the situation was if they did see; they were getting on with their night too

I don't really hold any expectations of anyone when I'm out but that's just me

OK, I'm not trying to have a huge go here. I was just commenting that it would have been nice to see guys helping each other out. Perhaps I missed a trick.

I enjoyed hanging out with everyone. Sorry if I seem like an ungrateful bastard. I don't mean to be.

nova · 08-04-2013, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaz

Is there anything specific from that night Nova or are you just saying generally?

Clearly something or someone has rustled your jimmies. I think most that come out play the wing game quite well. If anything I cannot stand an overbearing wing, nothing worse than having a set blown out by someone your out with (new chaps do this, but they soon learn after being reprimanded) The concept of winging is misunderstood and overused, but that's a different story altogether.

It was more an observation... although I notice this has unsurfaced some strong feelings from others. I just felt it is a kind of a natural thing to do.

For me the concept is basic. You have a mate in a 2 set, you go and occupy the friend. This is also part of being social. Anyway, perhaps this was happening and I was too preoccupied debating about how not creepy day game is with Jaz

Shahanshah · 08-04-2013, 07:04 PM

Did you change Jaz' mind?