I love you

I’ll come out sarging too, and arrange a talk.

I know you love me Jynx.

@Nova Haha you'll have to join me on my daily routine, sit in class with me, watch me go shopping and not buy anything I intended to buy, rub one out through my pocket.

Went out last night with some mates and no money in Bolton, plan was to mine sweep all night but found about 2 drinks the entire night haha sober the entire night by accident. Got to the point where I tried drinking my mates Listerine.

I didn't do any approaching or anything, not going to lie when I'm sober I'm not horny or as excited for chatting to girls coupled with being with mates who aren't going to push me to do it which I still need right now.

Immmmmmmmmmmmprov

i think you should use these nights out with your mates as chance to approach girls that you find attractive, when your out with people from the forum alot of the time you need them to literally push you into an interaction or point out someone for you to chat too. you need to start talking to who You want to talk too and not who others want you to talk too. i keep forgetting your as blind as a bat though!

And if you don't think this is an area of life you can improve upon, you're fucking deluded

he never said he didnt think he could improve on it!

Haha my squinty eyes like a Chinese man.

I feel more judged with friends and they more wanna keep to themselves (which is fair enough I'm not complaining). Being able to approach the girls I want (and do well) is definitely the direction I wanna head towards, you're right about that.

Or maybe I can already, get your fat ass out to see!!

@Sapmi, please elaborate to how this is genuine advice, tips or comment and not you trying to dispute me? I posted earlier in here that I cba to get involved in it any more especially in my journal.

I can and have chatted up girls in day time whilst sober, I have female friends, I've even done sober nights out and was around the same skill level, in fact I could argue better but it depends on what you call good/bad, as I was the drunken night a few days before.

Clubs are designed for drunk people, drinking and getting drunk together is a social thing, drinking is fun. I could go into some gay shit about how drinking and partying is actually a part of catharsis but cba.

I might go through a sober phase at some point who knows, me and XF-Chris said we might do a few sobery nights out during the week but then again we were battered when talking about hahaha.

And the fact that everybody's argument for going sober always revolves around women and 'skill' depresses me.

And Jynx, you guys are my mates, buddy

Went out last night with XF Chris, Dice, David and Shaun to 5th Ave, I was sober but that wasn't by choice :P No money nigga.

I approach two girls and it goes alright but even though the friend fucked off and it got awkward over escalating, getting sexual and walked off after a while.

XFC tore up the club, he was on fire and ended up getting with a smoking hot blonde. I did a few more approaches during the night and for being sober it was actually alright but there's always that feeling you could easily go home any minute when you're not drunk.

Dice, you need to drink less :P David did good it was his first night out, I think, with people off the forum and he killed it. Shaun was banter, we got on like a house on fire, and he pulled too.

See I never saw drunk as making me better its just more fun and I actually get horny and want to get with the girls but sober; I'm in a loud club, I'm very chill and my interactions go well buts its always just social which we all know isn't really what we approach for.

Tonight I'm getting wasted and I wanna get used to winging tonight. I full on want to tear it up tonight!

Awesome Shah!, see! being sobers not so bad. Enjoy your drunken antics tonight!