If it was me I'd be happy Jaz (or anyone) pointed a girl out for me, especially if I had a particular fetish like you as it meant they were obviously in your best interests and took time to think about you.

Maybe no one saw you talking to her?

You should have said "Come wing me" nobody knew how you wanted to play it or what the situation was if they did see; they were getting on with their night too

I don't really hold any expectations of anyone when I'm out but that's just me