cripple game?

spade + graveyard

Necrophile Game!

I thought 'cripple game' was pretending to be a cripple then sparking out unsuspecting women that offer to help and tossing them in the van...? It's the only opener I really use these days. You can't beat the classics. Say what you like about Mystery and Style with all that 'talk, talk, talking stuff' they say you should do, but they got nothing on the direct 'gripple game' of Buffallo Bill and Bundy if you ask me. Just don't get 'cockblocked' by the police and your home free...

Joker, you think to much.

Haha thanks for the replies guys! Even if they aren't exactly relevent!

And chillem you know what I mean Seated girls, standing girls, although as soon as I got it 'down' as in could go from open - close I stopped doing it in order to focus on night time BUT I'll get back into it when my sleeping habit is a little better.

Also thanks HammerTime for your advice on not ejecting.

Friday 11th May

Went into Manchester to meet up with a guy Joe Fresh introduced me to. We met and I explored some new bars. They were cool and my first 2 sets didnt go passed just an opening line and then them going off.

In Hula Bar, I got speaking to a tall hot blonde and I didnt eject straight away! Yay! I did keep asking a few things and saying things. Probably 5 sentences in all haha still really good for me!

Went to another bar which was actually really good but i didnt open in there, me and steve just chatted and I met Carmuda (I'll have to look up his username as I dont know how to properly pronounce or spell it!).

Went to 5th avenue by myself as Steve had to go. Inside I couldn't open for ages! Until a really hot girl with some random fake glasses on

Double tap on the shoulder "Hey I like your glasses" and me, the chode i am, actually froze as she started straight away being playful and joking around and seemed into me. Probably the hottest girl of the night so far and I must have stared at her for 5 seconds before accepting the fact she was messing around.

Anyway, we chatted a little and she went, I was not being fun enough obviously. I won't even say what I said to her playful reply! God awful :P

Had 2 other good interactions at the bar of 5th avenue, these 2 went really well and i got off the initial opener/thread of conversation!! Woohoo!

Also 2 hot blonde girls looked at me and one of them grabbed my face and said "You're really cute" I blew it in 30seconds obviously but ya know still it was nice!

Straight after one of the girls I had spoken to earlier came up to me and said she was having a good night because of our conversation, still I couldn't carry anything on. I just froze!!

Still I can only really open at the bar other than one approach when i walked passed a girl and said happy birthday (she had a bd badge) then spoke to her about that. Also when leaning at a table I saw a girl smiled and waved - she returned them.

Also with 2 of the interactions I introduced high-fives for w/e reasons.

Still I know the thing is just me ejecting or not carrying on the conversation! At least 3 girls I could have carried on or even had a good time with.

Overall I approached about 12 or so girls (some just in the street mainly asking where to go, just to keep in the mindset). Next time I'll try and take it a little bit further with some girls.

Also I met Sapmi in the club and we chatted but we mainly did our own thing, I wouldn't say I'm good enough to wing for him anyway. Glad to be around guys who are good at this; Steve, Sapmi, Joe and Zach are really cool guys.

You'll get there. I'm glad you've noticed i have quite a loud voice in the club. Talking loud but not shouting is useful in a loud venue like 5th. As an opener, rather than hi 5s, shake hands, eyecontact and kiss on cheek (just another way to experiment with). You can talk about anything to the girls, as long as you find it amusing/amazing. Nothing creepy like bestiality though.

I'll try them when I'm more comfortable Right now I usually tap them on the shoulder then say w/e usually "How's your night going?"/ "What you celebrating?" or sometimes an observational opener. That way I keep out of my head.

Out in Manchester for definite tonight mate Sorry about Saturday but the train times were confusing and looked like I had to wait till 8am for a train!


Quick Reminder

Time goes by so fast, its the 14th!! I have 11 days to get to my goals which are to be able to have genuine approaches with attractive girls during day or night (but not necessarily any time/any girl if you get me). Damn can't believe it goes by so quick and how little I've done towards it. Must get out there during the day.

I mean I've realised how little opening is, sometimes I think it's more like I'm just fine where I am rather than any anxiety and I just don't give myself that push to do it. Also I jerk it a lot haha so I don't have some insane sex drive driving me.

Saturday

Couldn't get out to Manchester so I went out with some friends, we didn't get out till stupid o'clock (1:30am) and I didn't open any girls or anything.

I gave Eye Contact to girls as I walked about the place, a few requites.

Seeing as my goal is 25th May - my birthday - I may as well attempt to go out every single day. Using Tuesday and Sunday as pure day time as I don't know anywhere in Manchester that is busy enough for solo night outs.

Also I read a post by IJJJJI who said about how if you plan too much you end up not taking enough action or even any action and become a habitual planner not action taker. I think this is me, I have so many plans for stuff yet never do it!

Really feel I don't take enough action, even with girls in my everyday and social circle etc. Must use this as leverage!!!

EDIT: I genuinely didn't plan on opening either, just getting out there was enough for me

Tuesday 15th May 2012

Today went to Manchester in the daytime to help get back into speaking to girls in the day time, I looked back to when i last went out properly in the day time to speak to girls AND IT WAS AGES AGO!! OVER A MONTH!! Literally as soon as I could go direct and then got 2 dates, i just slipped out of it for a variety of reasons - but mainly being lazy and breaking the habit of going out daily which I had nicely tucked in for a month.

Went out today shattered, did 4 approaches of hot girls and was just Indirect directions type nothing beyond a response and on my way whilst keeping EC tight.

Do it tomorrow and add a compliment on the end and then maybe go direct again, always need a break in day or two even after a 1 day off let alone a month!!!

Definitely feel more comfortable and at ease with the whole thing these days.

Wednesday 16th May 2012

Last night I went out for a friends Bday, planned on being sober but actually got a tad drunk.

It was a small student club where you see the same people pretty much all the time. Turned up though and that's my goal.

Although there was one girl we always make eye contact, not like massive but I see her around quite often but I have this habit of thinking situations like this probably means they think I'm weird. Rather than EC'ing me because they like me. Probably because they are actually hot girls. . .

Also I saw a girl I like out (not One-itis, long story to explain situation) but I couldn't really do anything. Not sure if its just clubs still, like she's off obviously with their friends walking around the club.

Then I scare myself out with going up and speaking to her again in the club, especially seeing about 5 or so guys within the social circle (not my friends but you know of them around the uni) all hitting on her, as she is out of my league tbh. Also I don't think she likes me anyway, although that's all to do with your technique right!!!

Grrr fuel for the fire to fucking get better at this day and night.

Im quitting Facebook too, what a load of bullshit, also I find these are an extension of that whole "people on the internets" thing. Everytime I feel like "checking on facebook for a girl or w/e" or looking online for posts on forums, i will go for a walk on the street and find a girl to speak to OR meditate.

Peace out.