I'll try them when I'm more comfortable Right now I usually tap them on the shoulder then say w/e usually "How's your night going?"/ "What you celebrating?" or sometimes an observational opener. That way I keep out of my head.

Out in Manchester for definite tonight mate Sorry about Saturday but the train times were confusing and looked like I had to wait till 8am for a train!


Quick Reminder

Time goes by so fast, its the 14th!! I have 11 days to get to my goals which are to be able to have genuine approaches with attractive girls during day or night (but not necessarily any time/any girl if you get me). Damn can't believe it goes by so quick and how little I've done towards it. Must get out there during the day.

I mean I've realised how little opening is, sometimes I think it's more like I'm just fine where I am rather than any anxiety and I just don't give myself that push to do it. Also I jerk it a lot haha so I don't have some insane sex drive driving me.

Saturday

Couldn't get out to Manchester so I went out with some friends, we didn't get out till stupid o'clock (1:30am) and I didn't open any girls or anything.

I gave Eye Contact to girls as I walked about the place, a few requites.

Seeing as my goal is 25th May - my birthday - I may as well attempt to go out every single day. Using Tuesday and Sunday as pure day time as I don't know anywhere in Manchester that is busy enough for solo night outs.

Also I read a post by IJJJJI who said about how if you plan too much you end up not taking enough action or even any action and become a habitual planner not action taker. I think this is me, I have so many plans for stuff yet never do it!

Really feel I don't take enough action, even with girls in my everyday and social circle etc. Must use this as leverage!!!

EDIT: I genuinely didn't plan on opening either, just getting out there was enough for me