Went out to Improv last night, felt spaced out and tired, the samurai game was crazy - made me all giddy like a girl.

Latch and Dice came out after too meet Jynx and D in 5th ave, from what i remember (not drunk i just have an awful memory haha) everybody was owning it, doing their thing.

I, on the other hand, sucked. I did awful which at one point made feel kinda depressed hahaha or melancholic should i say. So lame obviously because i was being cranky and all that but yeah i sucked super bad

I was speaking to girls and all that but ejecting every 2 seconds. D was literally throwing girls on to me but i couldnt do shit. Maybe go out with less expectations, bring a bit more of fun to the interactions I noticed i have pretty boring conversation/interactions.

Also a few girls were into me but i ejected, THATS how bad i was. Also need to start speaking to girls through out my day too; its key.

you did good bro, don't put yourself down, practice makes perfect.

Work through the pain barrier more by refusing to eject.

We all have bad days bro, don't let it effect your mindset, take it on the chin and crack on!

Yeah true, think i was just a bit tired and cranky.

Went out last night to meet Roody and Jaz, got chatting, telling stories and all that whilst i got wasted really surprisingly quickly. By the time we left I was in a sick mood to go out in and then Jaz roundhoused me outside Paramount and we had a clinch hahaha.

Went Missoulu for a friends birthday managed to talk our way into the VIP section which always shit but it was novelty ya know.

Bday girl passes out and throws up in the club, i carry her out get her a taxi and go meet Jaz and Roody in BDB.

It was good in there, got speaking to a few girls, probably easier than I usually do but did nothing great. Stealing lots of drinks. Onto NQ, BDB much of the same. Jaz was speaking to a girl on the dancefloor, so I spoke to the fatty. Told her I was a Producer in town and bullshitted loads because I thought it was funny. Spoke to the girl Jaz was talking to and did the whole "Oh Jaz is the coolest guy, funniest guy I know",s he replied with "he said the same about you" Hahah.

After this point I went home and met a girl on the bus home, got her number, texted her earlier, no reply. Oh well. So hungover still.

Overall I noticed I'm getting into the groove a lot easier and 'better' interactions and fun nights; like before I could have a sick night with my mates but no speaking to girls or I would try to speak to girls and it'd always be the most tortuous, labouring night out. Now I have sorta mixed them together, obviously still not great.


One thing I learnt from last night is that you really do only need to find one girl in the night and generally it ain't going any of the girls at the beginning. hard to explain when I'm this tired and hungover but it does take the pressure of the approach an awful lot.

Also I realised you should stay out as late as possible, keep in there etc, i swear some PUA-type stuff act like a night out is something you wanna get in and out from as quick as possible.

Awesome guys to go on a night out with too, proper lads night out.

Hah sweet one mate, I was out round Didsbury for the most part headed back into town around 1ish, gave Jaz a bell and headed to Underdog (I hadn't even realised there was more than one BDB!). Couldn't find them though, did the rounds and opened a few sets mostly unsuccessful. Was probably in there the same time as you!

Haha nice man, we got to NQ BDB around 3 i think, when was you in there till?

I honestly can't remember! I got so ridiculously steamed, I got kicked out of the co-op for falling over drunk, don't know why I was in there!

Hi Shah,

Part of what you say is right. You very rarely pull a girl for sex at 10pm. Earlier in the night, you're as social as possible. Sometimes earlier in the night, you can bounce a group/girl to a different venue. This doesn't guarantee a shag, but it gets you leads for later. If you hit it off, with girls at the beginning of the night, a good thing is to get the number, so you have a whole bunch of people to text later "afterparty?"

The cruicial bit, is who you are with around 2-3am onwards (depending on the club closing time).

For example, I met a girl in one bar (Hot Shots, Burnley), made out with her, but was early. She'd lost her friends, so I bounced her to Ignite club. She then just wanted to go off on her own and dance, that's fine with me, wasn't being a stalker chode. She made out with other guys early. I chatted to other girls too, I had other options that night. Then around three, I spot her bored. Reinitiate contact. Says she's tired bored, I reply "lets get out of here"... i was there when it mattered. Other people made out with her more than me, but I got my dick wet.

Girls as rule won't approach you and say "let get out of here". I dunno about you guys, but that's NEVER happened to me before (may to Jaz because he's got superpowers). Don't be too obvious, but know where your girls are approximatley. Keep intiating contact. Don't worry if she makes out with chodes. In fact, her making out with other guys is a good sign. Means she's up for it. If you walk out the club entrance with her, even to stop to get food, your chances of success raise astronomically.

This is good news in other ways too. You don't have to think two steps ahead in any interaction at the beginning of the night. She's not gonna suck your dick in the DJ booth! And you can't really have sex in the toilets anymore. So you can just relax, connect with her, grab her number/know her whereabouts, then if you're their when she's getting tired/bored, if you walk out with her, you're nearly there!

You make a good point but I wasn't on about that :P Thanks.