Cool dude.

It is an abundance mindset. What's the point on wasting your night with girls who aren't interested. Its the same principle as a coffee meet; low key, either person can simply walk away if the other person is not what you want. It matters not. Its for the best.

Yet to try tinder. I think in the big cities it'd be cool but I can't see many girls using it in my area. Worth a look though.