Yeah its why I don't go there anymore

Is it possible that you've now hit on every girl in there?

Last night I was out with some mates, of which quite a few were girls, and its mental how shit guys in general are in chatting up girls!! At least in the shit hole of a club we were in. I think I had more teeth than the entire collective of females in the venue. I was out with five or six girls, four of them you would bang. Every guy who came up was creepy as fuck, and I don't mean came up in front. I'm talking about a guy who stood behind one of them and kept trying to stroke her arm and touch her. Guys who'd walk up and just stand there, or they'd just try and hug then throw themselves on them.

I was thinking "Is this my competition?", I almost generally thought when chatting to girls on nights out I was at least against SOME competition. Maybe it was just the shitty bolton club rather than a more cosmopolitan place in Manchester. Is the only competition - in general - just the friends who cockblock? I don't know.

I do know girls love to cockblock, even if they think you and their friend are getting on. They just enjoy doing it. Guess you gotta make friends with the obstacles to get isolation with your target to get onto C1/C2 (depending on enviroment, buying temperature and your value at the time).

Eyyy buddy, I'm out of action till 22nd of may, are you down to go out after that?

Sorry mate, I planned on giving up nights out on the 21st May

Did you show them how it's done then and pull?

Sorry that was a cynical question. I should just come out and say what I thought when reading your post.

I think you are making the mistake of focusing on how others are with girls. How bad the competition is, won't help you out. Focus more on your own actions, and work on yourself. It's your journey.

PM me what you want me to say and ill post that.

I decided to start posting field reports again. First off I'll post casual ones then maybe get into being a bit more goal focused or whatever.

I hadn't been out with The Boyz a month or so and generally hadn't hung out with anybody off here since before Easter I think! This has led to a massive drop in my game or whatever. If I go out with the intention of approaching and going about it all I will usually at least make-out with a girl and then probably fuck up the close at some point or get a stupid number. If I go out just for a 'night out' then it generally ends up just being conversations and that's about it. When I go out in a more pua-y approach vibe it definitely doesn't feel like work or anything its just a lot more focused and a different vibe.

Anyway I won't bore everyone with some over descriptive shit. I just found I didn't have that spark I used to have. Need to get more self-motivated to approach, more often.

I've been gay best friending and going out with girls recently for no other reason than most guys I know are either A) Stoners who stay in B) Loners who stay in C) To laddy and annoying or D) Im pretty sure they are gay and aren't great night-outers anyway.

Girls on nights out: Dance for 4 hours and still have an abundance of opportunities to pull. Sometimes I forget I'm not a chick. It was also a bit of an eye opener, man girls are mental.

Tuesday is my next night out so I'll post back all my crazy shit.

Get yourself back out dude, I'm keen to get a bit more in, I've been dating 2 newish girls but cant remember the last "approach" i did!

Ill text you and we can sort something out.

GoodRebel