Your intention of having a fuck buddy...

If a girl asks me what im looking for i always say

ideally im looking for Miss right but i`ll carry on having fun with Miss wrongs until i find her

it allows me to be totally honest but non commital to her.

Ive noticed in my experience there are girls who dont want a relationship but want to fuck and are happy to admit that with you.
there are girls that dont want a relationship and want to fuck but if you admit you want the same they feel out of control and will back off, wether they feel slutty because they openly admitted it or want to be the one thats in control of what the meeting turns into i dont know.
then obviously there are girls that want a relationship.
there are girls that want a relationship but dont think you are relationship material but are curious about fucking you so do it.

again- the permutations are endless. I dont lie to girls now about what i want but i do use non commital responces at times that allow them to think whatever they want.
i also make sure i dont hurt their feelings or i do my best not to.

I think after youve had sex with a LOT of girls you kindof reach your own moral point

why are girls askin you these things.... i couldnt imagine a girl DARING to ask me soemthin like this...

Phil you must have been asked at least once?

ye, granted years ago, or maybe after ive been fuckin them for months or more.

but not before ive fucked them. and certainly not after a few dates...

infact, they dont even ask they just get all angry over somethin stupid then blurt out how distant i am or somethin.... to which i just stop seein them

but thats rare, most just know what im about and except it

Everything in the girl's head is designed to keep the man no matter whether you think they're being cute by saying they don't want anything serious, what they are really trying to do is keep you. You guys think the invention of condoms can change millions of years of evolutionary biology? Granted, it changes the social acceptance of things but deep within the subconscious, the girl doesn't really want to be a fuck buddy at all. Fuck buddy relationships don't last long, there's a reason for that.

And on the friend thing...if you are sexually attracted to each other then you are more than friends. You're friends with your male buddies aren't you? Do you fuck them too?

Agreed, I just think that the moral point of many men and many who come looking on PUA forums is fairly toward the low end and all about getting sex and using women.

Not all women are after a relationship. END

Just cos I take a girl home on a Friday night, and we have wild sex, does not mean I am using her. I love it. She loves it. END

Yeah, that's it mate.
Are you 21? I don't think I've heard someone try to call someone a virgin since I was a teenager...let alone sign their email with peace afterwards.

so explain how i see guys on here sayin they got fucked off by girls???

are you tellin me a woman has never just not called a guy back???

LOOK AT WHERE YOU PREACHING MATE

In my own experience:

Have had FB relationships for well over a year before. Difference is your not seeing them all the time and none of that relationship drama.

I don't find it as black and white as that. All relationships are different and I find the different emotions you feel for people sometimes astounding. I love so many people in different ways.

I have had female friends who I've slept with and it was just like an added part of our friendship, but it was still a friendship just a different sort of one. Definitely more than just FB status too. We were totally cool with each other and never got jealous if the other one got with someone else or anything. I sometimes feel it makes you better friends if you've got this sexual tension out of the way first.


I'm not gay. This is different. You can still find a female friend sexually attractive. Barry on the other hand, great as he is, just don't give me a boner.

Yeah I agree, morals do sometimes go out of the window with PUA stuff. Not here I find, but other places do reek of 'I must get sex now to prove I'm PUA and I don't care what immoral things I do to get it'. I think it is bourne from a desperation thing and trying to prove yourself. In my more desperate days I would sleep with married women or ones with boyfriends, but now I try to avoid it. Would only do this now if they were some insanely special girl.