Anyone here ever got a bit on the side in addition to their current girlfriend?

Where are you going with this thread?

yea chianti and fava beans

Who uses this phrase anymore, apart from maybe a retired 'Carry On' script writer.

why would you make a girl your girlriend unless she is the only girl u want to be with, if you are into fucking other girls, do so... fuck them all...just dont figuratively fuck someone ur meant to have loyalties with

makes no sense at all to me tha

I before have cheated and realise its a shitty thing to do.
It is not worth it. It causes so much heartache and agro.
It makes you a bad person. You will feel guilt in one way or another.

It will increase paranoia/anxiety, and may even cause death (AIDs, or, the girlfriend will chop off your dick)

My advice: Do not cheat. If you so desperately desire to play the field, don't get commited to anyone. If your need to be "loved" by a woman is so great that you need a girlfriend but need to fuck other girls too, see a shrink

Where I'm going with this thread is, if people think it's bad to cheat on someone then why don;t they think it's bad to mislead someone into a ONS or a fuck buddy relationship?

What would you prefer?
Mistress? Casual fuck girl?

I think most people on this forum, or at least quite a few, don't advocate misleading girls into ONS or fuck buddy relationships.

The morally correct thing to do, which many on here live by (I think), is to be honest and up front from day one about your intentions..

Besides, who wants sex based on lies

but a lot of men on this forum think its ok to let a girl cheat on her boyfriend WITH you?

ive been a "bit on the side" myself & its fun for a while.....but i was the one who got hurt in the end, its all a learning process