That ain't a friend.
I'm strictly from the When Harry Met Sally thought on this...if you want to fuck them then they are not a friend in your mind just someone to fuck.

Here's a question...you're probably not in the mindset for thinking it yet but would you marry one of those girls that had spent her life having ONS and fuck buddy relationships?

There is no "thought" or "mindset" on this.

Women love sex just like men do. Women are not bad people for wanting it/craving it/getting it

I cannot believe you said that women are not decent if they have ONS or fuck buddy relationships.. This is just mental

ok well, hows about a close friend who i havent slept with who has said the exact same

granted i only have one of them... but she still says the same

women do not allow men to know what they really think, do or want

I just fail to see how 2 people who are attracted to each other can stop there. Genetically, people aren't designed for that. Everyone knows that someone develops more feelings in a f buddy relationship eventually.

Anyway, slightly off topic.

they are the only girls i would marry...

do u think i would make a girl my GF before i know her TRUE SELF...

these girls i know whether they are the faithfull type or not... i know them inside out.

unlike the girls who i fuck and they have fellas & they say OH IVE ONLY BEEN WITH HIM 3 MONTHS WE GOT TOGETHER AFTER 3 WEEKS.

u do not know a girl well enuf if you go str8 into a relationship... u see the version of her she wanted u to... she bares no loyalty to this relationship.

ur chattin shit.

are u 21?

no mate, much older.
I never said you go straight into a relationship - I don't think any of my relationships have been straight into it they all developed into relationships. I was pointing out that people who meet girls with the sole aim of having a ONS or fuck buddy relationship are probably misleading them...especially if they come on here with the attitude of "I need some more pussy man, I'm fucking these hos and bitches, and etc"

so if your fucking a girl... and your not together... the relationship is developing.

what is that then?? coz thats what i call a fuck buddy.... if it goes into somethin it does

if not it doesnt.

ur just tryin to play the sanctimony card, which i hate.

if you fuck a girl who isnt ur GF more than 10 times and she isnt ur GF...

she is ur fuck buddy

A fuck buddy is someone you have an explicit agreement with to fuck each other but you know you don't want a relationship. I don't see how you can be attracted to someone without wanting it to develop further but many people here seem to think they can.

The developing part above is not a fuck buddy, it's someone you're with that you're both attracted to each other and are probably having a relationship with but it's a grey area at the beginning of a relationship because you know you like them and probably want a relationship but you're finding out about each other. The intention is to see what happens and maybe it will develop well. The intention of having a fuck buddy is not for it to go anywhere... ever.

This actually happened to me in my last encounter with a lady.

After night out on the town with her and some others

Her - "you're not really going to make me get a cab all the way back to my place are you"

Me - (playfully) "I guess you can stay over, but your knickers are staying on"

Her - "Listen, I'm not really too interested in getting involved in anything serious"

Me- "cool"


Not sure if this dialogue was in the "attraction phase" as I don't really know what that is

I even brought it up giving her a lift home the day after (after kicking her out of bed so that I could go and play cricket)

Me- "you know I don't really want anything serious right?"

Her- "I think I said that first (Smile). Totally"



I can't really see your point mate. I have to say my personal experiences have led me to believe that Honesty is the best policy.


Girls respect that

I'm not Tricking them into bed with some form of reverse psychology

They are sexual beings too, if a physical relationship develops into one where one of you gets more emotionally invested. You have to confront that and be honest and open.

Adult relationships.

I did used to have the same belief as you. and I have only recently come to this conclusion (mainly by the advice of some of the guys on this forum).

As as consequence i can see that in the past where girls actually came onto me, probably just for some physical comfort and I scared them off by convincing myself that they wanted a relationship. Or that they weren't that type of girl.

Difference now and then?


I used to be intimidated by female sexuality. Which led to my then girlfriends having to repress their sexuality and consequently leading to some very sickly relationships


Enable them to express their sexuality and don't punish them for it


Just my opinion


Scamp

if I buy a snickers bar from a shop and then later I buy one from another shop without letting the previous shop know that it was no strings attached is that wrong?

if you were assumed to be in a contract for something you'd lose your rag cos it's totally unfair. If she wants something serious that's when she should ask you for a commitment. A woman who says you should feel bad when she has assumed entry into an agreement is in the wrong.