Interesting read. This here sounds like it was a good interaction that you both enjoyed.

haha , funny night that!

Spot on about being with them all night though shah! Thought i was doing alright until she got paralytic! We should have number closed and ditched them earlier, i was finding the language barrier a bit difficult! Racing her down the street was funny though.

Although , I learned quite a bit that night and got to practise a few things I've wanted to work on , demonstrating value and pebbles.

GoodRebel

Yeah we can always go out again and find more!

Last night I don't remember much. I got steaming. My bad.

Funnily enough a mate who thinks its weird (or certainly doesn't like that I do it) that I speak to girls on nights out was talking and mentioned a "Neg". I look shocked and horrified and say "What is that?" and he starts explaining it and PUA how he saw The Pick-Up Artist TV show and I was like "Oh sounds weird. . ." This was about 12 and from there I got ruined.

Two scousers start having a stereotypical argument because I egged them on then automatically turned into the guy who calms down the situation. Go into a bar and I see the barmaid who gave me a free double last time and I demand another one. She calls me beard-man, scratches it, we have banter, the type I really like, the type that makes me want to fuck the shit out of them. I get my free double which tastes like a triple and then take her hand, go to kiss it and at the last minute turn it over and kiss my hands. She loves it.

Some girl i know comes up, quick chat, she's someone i could have got with ages ago but ruined it and now it seems like the moment went. My mates are leaving, they are the opposite of speaking to new girls and that thing and that's cool. Next place I see The Evil Duo and I shout how evil they are to everyone, they're dressed all cute and innocent betraying their debauchery, I love it, they shout and call me "JEW!!!". Through out the night this word is shouted to me when i see them.

A mate said I got well bitchy randomly about someone haha like really, really, really, bitchy. So gay. I don't like being bitchy, I should make a mental note to consciously not do it.

Anyway from here you'll have to ask my mates what happened. Me and a guy I know ended up hanging out all night after most of our mates went home early, he said today I spoke to a lot of girls, constantly and liked it. Hes good mates with the guy who thinks its weird which is funny; one person loves it, one person hates it.

I probably got lairy at someone as well. I really want that barmaid. I remember two interactions with no idea how they went, luckily I see them around uni often so I will try and get speaking to them if I see them.

That's a good cycle I think. Meet them in the club through being social then you can approach them again when you see them in the day.

Saturday

Went out last night with a friend from home, I wanted to meet Jaz and Chris off here too but seeing as we were pre drinking at mine it was hars to organise. . .as I was hungover from the night before.

Luckily we managed to all meet up and I was a little nervous bringing 'pu life' into old life. It was like your mother using your internet browser; one false move and she will forever have shame on you.

Me and my mate were already chatting to some girls when chris and jaz showed up. This is standard for me now. Out of the 4 I could have took home 3 of them I notices as I managed to semi-isolate them all haha. No comment on the looks. Im a social eagle, I must spread ny wings.

Interesting observation, if im with friends who arent into this type of stuff or I feel like they'll be judging me rather than seeing it as just a laugh whether it goes well or not, I dont approach or it wont go as well.

Anyway from here we move about. I spend the night shouting at girls as they walk pasaed to stop and shit. Two girls try and make out with me and want to hang out with us. I stamp a girl with my DISLIKE which she did not find very amusing. . . I also went around high fiving every fat chick I saw as 42s had a disproportionate quantity murking about.

I realised that on this night I felt no pressure, no want or motivation to actuallu pull girls. I was having fun making up chat up lines, chatting to Jazzaruth and Christiple.

On the dancefloor me and my friend start chatting to some girls, turns out I stamped them earlier, bit of a chat but as I said earlier I really didn't care about taking it further or carrying it on. Friend starts being gay, he walks off to stay with them. Pfft end of you tonight mate.

So this guy keeps touching my beard, I tell him to ask first as its fucking annoying always having people stroking your face. It ends up j him trying to tool me ans getting right up in my face, he tries to do thay cheek-to-cheek talk but I keep it nose-pressed-against-nose when out of nowhere JAZ comes charging through slaps and HEADBUTTS the guy with the guy's mates punching Jaz, I realise whats happening, rip a guy off Jaz from behind, punch him (I think. . .) Then go to swing again and throw the most ill-aimed swing of my life and the guy just started punching everyone on the dancefloor BUT me haha. Chris was running in but couldnt find the epicentre of it all.

Jaz got kicked out for some reason and we went outside to meet him. Laughed about it, and on the subject of of Jaz did the right thing I declared 'I dont know if it was the right decision but it was certainly tje best decision'. Here I think I should have been the first one to punch, its definitely more alpha.

I'd like chris and jaz to honestly say if, up until the fight, if I was the 'alpha' in the confrontation. Not out of insecurity but out of interest and self improvement as ive always thought I should have been more aggressive in those situations or punched first. On the way home I spoke to some girls about chips.

And then I nearly got into another fight over someone touching my fuxking beard!! But I was chatting up the night porter lady and he was bwing dealt with by people already.

Will post some reflective stuff in a bit. Kirk out

Reflection

I didn't mention a fair bit of the night, up until the fight I was literally clowning around with girls. The 2set me and my friend were speaking to probably would have went well if I carried on. Also after the fight the 4 girls I spoke to at the beginning were like "Heyyy!!".

So good my bros have got my back too. I like that. I got their's unless I'm too drunk. I really feel like now, as long as I'm not too drunk, I can isolate and then close girls. My main thing is accidentally hanging out with a 'warm up' set too long (read: tubby girls). I lose motivation through-out the set if the girl is a bit boring or not too attractive. Although I guess I should just be taking them home for practice.

I also learnt over the passed two nights how important it is to not only smell good but have good breath. I mean we all know bad garlicy or onion breath is bad but I would LOSE attraction for girls its going well with simply because of smell, and not even smelling BAD in particular.

Obviously standard isolate and STICK with them, like you don't have to be constantly gaming or even interacting, just 'with' them. And when the club closes or you feel they'll go home just bounce.

My friend taught me a few tricks - he doesn't know about pua but has his own 'pua' thing - and about closing he said its always "After party" or "Drinks back at mine!" and even though he used to live 40minutes drive away from where he'd meet girls, he would just say "Yeah 2minutes down the road, lets go". Its not lying, its not telling the truth on purpose.

So yeah keep isolating and escalating on gals in clubs and around University. You can do it Shah. Go me. Should have this settled by New Year.

I hope you're taking the piss here Barney.

Nah I genuinely wondered if I should of punched first. Not losing sleep over it, its something I've observed about myself. Fighting is a fact of life, so I'm wondering if I took the right approach.

Fuck fighting off and stop trying to be an alpha male in the club.

Haha how am I all pua about everything. You've been on nights out with me.

I'm just sick of reading about PUA guys worrying about looking alpha as if they have to become something they're not in order to get pussy.

Fighting doesn't have to be a 'way of life'. It isn't for me.