Had a date late afternoon with a nice girl, blonde hair and hazel eyes and does the cute little nose twitch.
Starts off well, seems like we both have a big interest in self improvement and she's finding Zumba to be excellent for gaining confidence. - there you go lads, bust some moves.
All's going well. Then she says "I love going out with my girlfriends picking up guys. That's how I met my boyfriend". I just laughed lightly, smiled and said "that's good cos now I can let you down .. Next time we meet let's do a double date." She was taken back by that, shocked. I was too really because before all of my self improvement I'd have crumbled at what she said but now I fucking laughed at it. Looking back at the interaction, this part makes me laugh even now.
A little later we go from the cafe at around closing time and start walking around the town. She then tries another stab. "I have something to confess; when I go out on nights out I find it extremely hard not to bring a guy back to my house". I read both levels of that comment instantly:
- If I go to her house I'm going to be there a while
- Congruence test
I bring her in really close, her breasts make me feel like I have man boobs, eyes locked, she's deep breathing and I say "remember I'm taken" and smile with a light laugh. I think at that point I could have probably said anything.
She asks me 3 times to come clubbing with her, the third time she asked we were in the park and I just stopped dead still, looked up at the sky and saw that it was a clear sky tonight with lots of stars. I love this. I lie down on a near park bench whilst she's talking some jibber jabber. I out stretch my arm and take her hand and tell her to lie down on top of me looking up. Looking back at this it was a ballsy move but it didn't register as that at the time. She agrees and we are there for maybe 20 minutes looking at the stars, she quite awkwardly pointed out that a star was turning red, I set her straight by saying it was a plane.
I walked with her back to her house, in the same direction to where I live. At the end of her street she says "come back to my house with me". I tell her that I can't because I'm off to see my girlfriend. She says smiling "ohhh so were still playing those games are we?". I turn my heard close to her's with probably a big grin on my face "I like games, there fun". I give her a kiss in the middle of her laughing and I start walking off. I shout back to her "we'll have to meet up again sometime" she shouts back "this Wednesday. I'll phone you".
This is probably the best way I've handled everything, ever. I left her at just past 12 so it was a good 4 hours we were out together. I decided not to go back to her house right from when she said she takes guys back all the time. This then made me act a bit more ballsy i.e making her lay down on top of me on the park bench. I wanted to leave her without sex, yet but also thinking about me, wanting to meet again, which is why I shouted back to her whilst walking away.
Not perfect by far but definitely fun!