OK Guys updates!!

I'm officially a second year PU! Not a fresher anymore! Since my last postings I've had more pretty solid interactions..no lays but, interactions a lot more solid! Here are the highlight.....

Dec Fri 18th:
Me, Jaz, Adam and Rood went to Northern Quarter. Spotted this gorgeous girl, who I thought was checking me out a bit. I was chatting to one of her guy ,mates for some reason to. Any how I open "hey you, come here a sec". Got chatting to here. Very nice interaction. But I chilled the kino!! Didn't kino because I thought I should, just held it gave a bit withdrew and so forth. I number closed her and we had a very slight makeout at the end. It was on for a day 2 on Wednesday. I think this was more solid because I am starting to CHILL.

Sat 19th:

I was a bad boy, got chucked out of Pure. Went to OPUS. Made out with probably the hottest girl there, then Amogged to fuck. Pure caveman night, no solid interactions=no sex (i am way starting to learn that)

Monday21st Dec: Did a state experiment. Went to OPUS sober. Went back to basics. Tried to approach. Kind of went into state then. But too caveman. Ended up double clawing a couple of girls outside in the cig area. Facebook closed one of them, but that's it.

Weds 23rd DEC: Day 2...

Met the girl from Friday. We met at TV21s then I bounced her to Wetherspoons. Good interaction. Quite romantic with walking in the snow christmas time. She was very testing though. I got into the wrong frame i.e "I need to dominate her, don't let her dominate me". In hindsight, yeh be dominant (I did enough, I set the schedule and the venues!)..just chill out, smile and enjoy it. I managed to get my way back to her flat in Deansgate for a "coffee". We K-Closed, but no sex. I tried. She said she was tired, I said, lets go to bed...but no

Boxing Day night:

Fuck that, I was wayy too pissed. I stood in the smoking area and fell over for no reason! Very Unattractive!

Xmas Monday Opus:

Good night, but no real solid interactions. Keeping conversation and attention was difficult.

Weds Birdcage:
I went out solo and sober. I became CHODE MAN! Yes, the superhero. I thought fuck this, I'm looking forward to new years eve too much!

New Years Eve, MOHOs live.

Awesome night! Got in the venue, with the lads. I was in "state" already. I opened this girl with "blagobledegook", wasn't even an english sentence! I was so chilled, you extract ice lollies from my ass! I picked up some subcom iois from her, so I capitalised, chilled with her, then led her around the venue, never "trying" to kino, just letting it happen at a reasonable and CALIBRATED way. I led her, hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, teased her etc. It was ON! However, she had come over with a male friend who was pissed off. It turned out he had feelings for her! However, she wanted to stay with me. I wanted that same night lay. I let the interaction escalate over the coming hours. I was at the point I was kissing her neck. Then bang, she initiates a makeout. I back off and say, "not till midnight " I kiss her neck again. She said she is shaking "well turned on!" We kiss at midnight as promised. However, I want to pull her home. Not happening! She calls a taxi because her friend wants to go home. I did try to appease the friend earlier "offer to buy him a drink etc" no avail. Number closed her anyway...

The next day, I text her my facebook details, she texts me a ljbf speech, to which I suggest a meeting but then she flakes

Saturday: Jan 2nd

Went to 5th with Jaz and Rudy. Mad night. Very cavemanny and clawing. This girls remembers my name and adds me on facebook days after! Must have made and impression. I was also accused by one girl for being "Sexy", but I over cacemanned her for a makeout. I was carnage lol. The difference between now and months ago is that I can SEE where my mistakes are!

Monday Jan 4th Opus:

Opened loads of sets, double clawed a girl on the dance floor. Then had an excellent interaction with a girl outside tiger tiger. Nothing solid though.

Weds Jan 6th BCage:
Good night! Got chatting to this irish glamour model. She bought me a drink! But I didn't chill in the interaction. i.e forced kino, which I am starting to recognise. Needed to concentrate on just enjoying the interaction and STAYING IN SET NO MATTER HOW UNCOMFORTABLE IT FEELS!. In the end number closed a girl band member. But flaked.

Thurs BCage:

CHODE!! Crap night

Friday:

Out with Jaz, Rudy, Dolphin

The night when Dolphin raped the girl in the toilets! (only messin' mate lol) I got to TV 21. Saw some pissed girls, said what the hell, started to bit her neck. She bit mine, but then we all bailed. We then went into the Northern Bar. Jaz went into this 2 set. I don't know what I said but the girl hated me! I think Jaz may have gone on to lay his girl. Anyway, I got chatting to another girl. One of the shyest girls ever. I CHILLED out with her. Didn't really force kino. Escalated slowly. I could feel the interaction getting more solid, like she was initiating kino alot more. We dance, and grinded, then I got a huge boner! She then just stopped dancing, arms folded, did not say another word to me.

Saturday 9th:
I was too pissed


Monday 12th Jan OPUS

Opened quite a few sets. Started to get a few nice solid interactions in the smoking area. Had one goodish interaction in the venue but only lasted a few minutes. I led her around, but wasn't leading enough. I had a fun night though. A lot of near misses in terms of hooks


Tues/Weds Day game

Scary shit! Walked up to a stunner in Market street, asked "you got the time?" then said "Iknow this is random, but I find you very attractive". She was well flattered. I could not continue though, I was SHAKING! First ever ever day game direct approach!. I only did 2 others after that on those two days.

Thursday 5th avenue:

Was there with Zol et al. The name of the game was CHILL!! Yeh, approach, but once you have, CHILL!! Sets were opening well. Then I went out to the smoking area to steal some cigs. I spotted a darkish girl with a pentagram. She looked awesome to me. Just started chatting. SAid she like my accent..therefore in my mind it was ON! Did some kino...no way would I try to make out with her in 5 mins infront of her friends! I just chilled with her and her mates. Her mates started to LOVE me and tried gaming me! Anyway they went inside after I number closed my girl "why did I let her inside" But I still thought it was on if I play my cards right.

Met up with HBPentagram half an hour later. She just CHILLED. A bit of kino, getting more playful though. Went out for a cig again. Came back in and danced with her. I slowly escalated, but escalated HARD BUT SMOOTH! Not way I even considered making out. I am not that needy! Breathed on her neck. Grinded a little, twirled her. Danced with her friends and other guys. Came back to her STRONGER! Kissed her neck. Started to bite her ear. She started to pull me in. She wanted more! Kept kissing her ear, neck and cheek. She couldn't help her self, she launched at my mouth! I did not even have to try to makeout with her! I escalated even more, got her to rub my cock....I felt her tits, arse...pretty x rated. It was on, and we had a connection, through chilling with her. But the bad news was, she was a mother hen! She was out with 5 of her mates and they were all pissed as farts, she was the only soberish one. I tried to pull her home but no, had to look after her friends and I tried to get to her house but, one of her friends was staying over! Damn that final push I always fall down on!! If I lived nearer 5th Ave? Who knows? Anyhow, will she flake......probably...but I know that my interactions are getting way more solid now. I am starting to appreciate what game really is and feels like. Onwards and upwards!!

I'm on a trend of really working a girl a night now. Just getting better with actual REAL INTERACTIONS with women, rather than having to dancing monkey, force kino, force makeout kind of shite I've been doing.

OK my interactions are lower energy now, but the key? I'm extremely confident.

Friday 15th:
Went to a few bars. Opened first set in Socio Rehab. I worked a two set, by being CHILL. They knew which of them I liked. Chatted for 15mins, then I number closed the one I liked, invited them over to Jillys later, but they were off to Sankeys

We went to a few more various bars. Really only spoke to 2 other girls. Kept the conversation chilled. Kinoed (hi 5, hugs)Nice interactions but no closes..just warming up

Then went to Jillys. Went in there. Chilled, cleared my mind. Enjoyed the music. Saw a cute girl with a massive birthday badge, so approached. Talked. Then the interaction continued. I kept it low energy or normal! I was just being normal! I led her to the bar, to dance a bit, chatted and chilled. Kino got progressively more (bit her neck, her ear etc). Asked her logistics questions, she failed miserably , lives and going back to Wigan with her friends, no chance of an ONS, I did ask the question. Anyway, danced a bit more, then made out pretty heavily on the dance floor, sexy grinding times. Number closed her too.

In all, my makeouts are getting heavier, and a lot more frequent. The thing stopping sex seems logistics or matters seemingly out of my control. But I think these are the type of interactions that will lead to sex, because we had vibed, chilled and connected.

Here's the latest action. As I said I'm "getting it". My new game is a lot more chilled and lower energy.

Saturday:

Retros birthday Funkademia. Got chatting to this irish girl. Chilled, relaxed with her. Got her to come onto the dance floor. We danced, I kissed her neck, amped up the kino. Suddenly she had to go, small makeout, but vanished.

I tried to wing a set for Jaz at the end of the night. This girl was shit testing me like anything. Name of the game? Chill. Just smiled, carried on talking to her. She warmed to me a bit (who wouldn't? lol), but shouted for Jaz's target to go home. In all fun night, no real PU triumphs though.

Monday:

Opus! A lot of the sets I spoke to outside. Its funny how my reactivity is very low. In the smoking area this chavvy girl was shouting at me "go away!". I smiled, carried on smoking. She then shouts "come here!", I said "no you come here". I got chatting to her group. We were playing sexual dares. She grabbed my bollocks, I had to bite they're ankles! Classic!

I number closed one of the regulars I see each week there, no sexy dancing though because she was off home! But, attraction clearly there. May try for a day 2.

Anyway, got chatting to a very gorgeous bruntette at the bar. Chilled, clawed her, pulled back, then I told her to introduce me to her friends. She did but she kept turning her back and generally not engaging me. However there was a blonde in the set, an HB10 by my books, which means my ideal girl looks wise (model features, slim, blonde hair) the type of girl I would have been scared to talk to a year ago! She was showing me interest "are you a cockney?" digging my accent. Set logistics were perfect, I took a stool right next to HB10 blonde, and just chilled with her! Guys were buying her drinks, she was chatting to her friends, answering her mobile, all sorts of shit, but I just stuck in there and STAYED IN SET! I clawed her alot, pulled back, cause I was chill. Told her she was cute. Got a bit sexual, not over the top. She was loving my kino more and more. Did a bit of roleplay, future projection stuff in a chilled funny way. She was loving it. I did Swypes "verticle gaze" on her. Bareing in mind I am trying to avoid making out in clubs. But with this girl it was too much. She kind of very subtly hinted she wanted a makeout. I obliged! Oh my fucking god!!! Make out with a perfect 10 the first time ever in a club, as a result of chill game!!!!! I then went for the extraction.. Logistical shit again, but she grabbed my phone off me and punched in her number and made damn sure I rang it! She initiated the number close!! We then arranged a day 2, for next Monday (she works long hours as a bar manager!)..she was hinting at dirty stuff too!

Anyway she went, the look of disbelief on my face must have been funny mouth to myself "oh my fucking god!", so turned round and hit the dance floor and I bump into HB pentagram from last Thursday! She screams "Mark!" grabs me hugs me, all over me! We makeout (as you do) then I said "what did you think of my mad random texts", she said "I loved them!" lol, I devoted a whole thread to these texts (sorry Jaz! lol).

So I went for the extraction. The problem was her mate was sleeping in her room (she lives in University halls, what a little pedo I am ). I go back to her place, wait till her mate falls asleep. Then makeout, but no sex, awkward when her mate is sleeping there. So, hopefully day2 Thursday.

These past few days PU wise have been mental! Everything has come together, just need to keep this momentum up.

And the name of the game is CHILL GAME!

Good stuff Sapmi!! Your transformation is immense mate, keep it up.

Love it mate. Things are on the up!!

Me too! This is exactly what the pick up community is all about - hearing our comrades have these stories of success, and !

Fantastic post Sapmi, utterly top class efforts there mate.

Just out of interest - how long have you been learning game for? It seems like you reacted perfectly in each of the situations above. A perfect application of some fairly complex PUA principles mate.

@adam: Firstly she was very receptive to my kino. But then she subtly chopped her lips very gently, randomly. I had to move in and kiss her then, the compulsion was too great!

@covert: I've been doing this around a year. Been a rollercoaster ride, but I commit myself to go out 4 or 5 days a week. Pickup is NOT rocket science. or complicated. The stuff RSD had bought out is the basis of my game. This shit WORKS!

Kowalski suggested once I do a post on how I game. I did that months back, but was based on other peoples principles. Hopefully in the next few weeks, make this post again on the basis of my "new" game.

See this is something I need to learn - that it takes months and even years to do this stuff. I've been doing it for 6 weeks, in fact I've only been going on nights out again in the last 2 weeks. Patience and persistence. I do have a slight problem in that I can only get 2 nights out per week, Friday and Saturday. Although in time I may try and squeeze a cheap / sober / early night in mid week as well...

One other question - what are you referring to when you say you 'clawed' a girl? Is this similar to push/pull - clawing her towards you, and then pulling back yourself?

@covert: It's grabbing her with one arm round her shoulder, like a big brother would do, a dominant make would do to his colleagues etc. Nothing sexual, just shows dominance. The trick is to be normal! One would normally claw, and then pull back to sip his drink say, scratch his arse etc Be normal, dominate and escalate. Hard to explain in words but I would advice you to at least look at flawless natural (RSD) to begin with or look at examples of "the claw" on google, youtube

21st Jan - Thursday

Start of the "downturn". One or two sets hooked as I recalled. I kiss closed a drunk girl (wow what an achievment...not!). Then this woman (blonde irishHB) was giving me major iois, but had a fat friend there. No wings! So I introdusced myself and number closed her. Told her about touring Manchester! Then I spke to this girl for like 30mins and it seemed a waste, at first she seemed attracted, but then it died, and it "seemed" she was trying to get rid of me "go find your friends" But I stayed in set goddamn it!! I stopped bailing sets weeks ago! I'm welll proud!

22nd Jan:

Number flaked from yesterday. Also, HB10 from Opus Monday, flakes. Good start . So we meet in Wetherspoons with Jaz, Red, Dolph, Jake, Zol etal. I opened a seated set in Wetherspoons to warm up. Not gone very far..Zol crashed it because we had to shoot off! We ended up in the Venue . The music was AWESOME!!!

I opened loads of sets. Apart from one in the smoking area, which kina hooked, nothing hooked!! I opened like crazy...rejection aftet rejection....the more I opened, the more shit I felt! Open..reject....open...reject... Felt like the Elephant man...... What a shit night! Compared to the last few nights it was absolutely horrible...kind of performance worthy of me back last Spring!

So went on the bus, spoke to this 2 set, number closed one of the girls...if this does not flake and I F-Close this, I will personally give Jaz £5...Wait...I saw a pig!!!! It's...errmm....flying!!!.....argghh! Call the Sun newspaper! If I F-close that girl from the bus, I will do the most outragous dare ever...you bastards, I bet you'll be well out of order here

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