@covert: It's grabbing her with one arm round her shoulder, like a big brother would do, a dominant make would do to his colleagues etc. Nothing sexual, just shows dominance. The trick is to be normal! One would normally claw, and then pull back to sip his drink say, scratch his arse etc Be normal, dominate and escalate. Hard to explain in words but I would advice you to at least look at flawless natural (RSD) to begin with or look at examples of "the claw" on google, youtube