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Hey guys,

Continuation from last time. Absolutely no sex. Did another extraction a few weeks after to her place, but the logistics were messed up. So, I started to become depressed and dishearted. I was getting all these makeouts, numbers and starting to get extractions, but no sex. This was tough! So, I gave up game for around two months. Learnt some martial arts and made a little money. I then started to go out again. My god, I was shit! I couldn''t even approach at first, leave alone makeout. Around 4 weeks in, I got my first makeout since quitting.

The lesson is, I now appreciate what I had and it is only a matter of time until I get to where I was when I left the game briefly. This small break has taught me to carry on and be persistent, because, I had achieved a lot in my development and not to throw it away by stopping going out.

Next, I started doing day game . So I went out today, I thought fuck it, I'll approach and see what happens. I approached about 7 or 8 women, had decent(ish) conversations with two of them. This is how it went.

First few interactions were me asking the time. Just to get warmed up. I was looking at the window of a travel shop when a brunette stands next to me to read the cards:

Me: Thinking of going on holiday then?
HBbrunette: Not sure
Me: I want to travel pretty soon
HBBrunette: Good Luck...(and walks off)

I then ask directions of two women. Then I go into the book shop (waterstones) I see a cute brunette asking the assistant where the body, mind and spirit section is. HBcb, then proceeds to go there. I follow her up after around 2 minutes. I notice she has a book on numerology on her:

Me: Are you into numerology then?
HBcb: Yeh thats right, I'm buying this book for fathers day, he's interested in it too...
Me: I used to do tarot cards, thinking of getting back into it. How does numerology work then...
HBcb: blah blah
Me: Is my name "Mark" lucky in Numerology
HBcb: Not sure at the top of my head..
Me: Anyway I Mark, pleased to meet you (shake hands)
HBcb: I'm Bee
Me: Like the bees? Buzz buzz
HBcb: Yeh (smiles)

Conversation then stops for 2 mins while book browsing

Me: You know, I always come to the psychic section in book stores. Usually into the sorcery/magick section
HBcb: Thats quite hardcore
Me: Yeh, it can be hard work...a lot of similarities between magick and martial arts, they both take discipline. blah blah

Then conversation stalls...she disapears.

There were times I felt a little awkward in the interaction, I'm really not used to doing this, but I'm glad my approach anxiety is reducing in day game

Next I go into another book shop, and I see this ginger bruntette checking out Worzel Gummidge DVDs (He wasa british scarecrow character in a kids TV programme)

Me: Hey, is that Worzel Gummidge?
HBginger: Yeh
Me: Wow, haven't seen him in ages.
HBginger: (laughs) picking these up for fathers day, my dads into Worzel Gummidge and Aunt Sally
Me: I had a crush on aunt sally as a kid
HBginger: *laughs* how could you?
Me: She was played by Una Stubbs wasn't she, and did you know Worzel Gummidge was Doctor Who?
HBGinger: Dr Who? No way!
Me: Yeh, he was the third one! I'm Mark by the way (extends hand)
HBGinger: I'm *name*..shakes hand
Me: It's peeing out with rain outside...bit wet
HBGinger: Any gotta go, nice meeting you...

This one seemed more chatty, but then bailed. Probably the best interaction of the day, but still a little awkward (it's a different environment, I'm used to Alcohol, Music, lights, energy etc) Hopefully I will improve. If I'm anything like I am at night game, during the day, that will be awesome.

Stay tuned

Sorry guys,
I forgot to take my medication today

Weds 16th June,

Lovely sunny day, so what better way to spend it..Day game!!

I did 6 direct approaches in total, only to girls I found attractive.

1)
In the Arndale:
Me: Hi, I though you were cute, just had to meet you, I know this is random..

Her: Thanks!

Me: I'm Mark, your name? (hand held for shake)

Her: Mark

Me: Alright, see you later...

I was getting ioied to fuck, but I didn't take it further, felt way too akward!

In the Arndale:
Me: Hi, I know this is random, but I thought you were really cute, just had to meet you, I'm Mark
Her: Thanks
Me: your name?
Her: blahblah
Me: cool, you out shopping?
Her: Yeh..blah blah
Me: So whats special about *her name* ?
Her: Don;t know really
Me: Love your blue hair
Her: Thanks
Me: I had a mohican a few days ago
Her: You should have kept it, would be really cool
Me: I have to be of, we should exchange numbers
Her: boyfriend
.......then it ended....I felt a little better...


Me: Hey, I thought you looked gorgeous, I just had to meet you
Her *stunned* (thats the reaction I want )
Me: I'm Mark
Her: (very friendly)..I'm...blah..
Me: You out shopping then?
Her: I have to fly back to Dubai by 5 haha
Me: You a seasoned traveller then?
Her: I'm an air stewardess
Me: Cool
Her: I have to go, I'm late, really nice chatting to you
Me: Same, enjoy...

4th Approach:
Same opener, in Picadilly gardens, opened this student, but boyfriend

5th Approach:

As I finished approach 4, perfect 10 (In my standards) walks by, goes into the Cooperative in Pic Gardens...I wait for her a few yards away, then she comes out, I strike!

Me: I know this is random, but I think you're cute I just had to meet you
Her: Oh OK (not too surprised though?)
Me: Mark, and you are?
Her: blahs
Me: Cool, you out shopping?
Her: No actually, I'm looking for a house, or flat
Me: haha I live in withington, know it
Her: Not sure where the residential places are round here
Me: I have to, we should chat later...lets exchange numbers
Her: Just bought my sim..no phone
Me: you on facebook
Her: No, on e-mail though
Me: Good luck, see you around

What I should have done, was mentioned my knowledge of Manchester and go for a coffee to chat about it... Maybe next time..but I'm here to learn, so hopefully will learn from my mistakes. Its also the case of building the confidence to do that

Approach 6:
Boyfriend objection but she was flattered!


The most direct approaches I've ever done in a day... at the moment still pushing for numbers and comfort game. Attraction should be quite easy, coming from the approach...


More tommorow

well done sapmi this inspires me to get back into day game!

Nice!

Good on ya lad

I've recently been searching through the forum for hidden jems. I've rediscovered this.

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/seduction-...-directly.html

A great example of how to apporach day game.

Thursday 17th June 2010

Three approaches in total, all direct...

Me: Hey, I know this is random, but I think you are gorgeous, just had to meet you! I'm Mark..
Her: Very flattered - smiling and say "oh my gosh!"
Me: And this is the part where you introduce yourself....
Her: I'm blah
Me: Oh cool
Her: I got a fella though
Me: I'm not surprised!...anyway, good to meet you!




In a book store, spotted a cutey by the horror novel section
Me: Hey, you like horror books then?
Her: I love reading them, blah blah
Me: I love werewolves etc blah blah
Her: Yeh me too
Me: By the way, I thought you you were really cute, had to meet you. I'm Mark

Things became VERY awkward then....I bailed.....and I felt pissed off

Thought, I wanna improve my tonality. Very hard to find sets. There was approach hesitation today, more than yesterday...I think it was because I wasn't happy with what I was wearing?

Stopped this hot blonde
Me: Hi, thought you were cute I just to meet you, I'm Mark
Her: errr. OK...gotta go...


hahaha. Blow out city. Better luck tommorow

i like day game. Not into the "you're gorgeous" line early as i think it puts them on a pedestal and sets the wrong precedent. Just look for something going on around you, comment on that and away you go. However getting the you're cute line in is a good way to judge if they like you and makes your intentions clear its just when to drop it. They always ask at some point "so what are you doing today? Reply with "well i was doing x and y and now i am chatting to a cute (insert something about her) girl " If they keep talking, then you keep listening and talking. Either ask to move on or after 15-20 mins say you got to go, ask for number job done. I like the chat and get number option then you can build attraction with calls and texts before a meeting. Its easy

I don't think so. Putting the girl on a pedestal is more of a state of mind. This is being direct and unashamed of expressing your sexual desires to the girl. This is attractive. For me it's best served up and then move on quickly talking about something else. He who waits for the responses and the IOIs is the value grabber, and the girl will see this.