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D!ce · 17-07-2013, 09:39 AM

How well does it go down asking outright pretty early into the conversation? Seems like it would be something you would want to know about sooner than after you've wasted 2 hours

nova · 17-07-2013, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by D!ce

How well does it go down asking outright pretty early into the conversation? Seems like it would be something you would want to know about sooner than after you've wasted 2 hours

The boyfriend isn’t all that important to me really, I guess the reason I got so wound up was because that's the second girl in a row I’d been on a date with, and she didn't let it slip til the last minute either... they just lap up the attention.

For me it is a simple question. Is she willing to fuck or not? I think I need to communication this more clearly to the girl, rather than tip-toeing into it and then getting stung. If she’s not down with the program she can then make that clear, early.

D!ce · 17-07-2013, 11:43 AM

I think a lot of girls like playing the game to make themselves feel wanted, I guess its a bit of a compliment or rush for them, but still being able to withhold dignity by declining at the last minute. Cock teasers.

SocialDan · 17-07-2013, 11:56 AM

My first thinking on reading the last few post is that if she's willing to dish her number out and have flirty text with you the boyfriend is irrelevant. I think she would have put out depending on how much time you invested in her! The question is... Is she worth the time it would take to get into her pants? If she can give her number out and flirt and go on a date with you she obviously doesn't care about her boyfriend to much! She's just testing you to see what you intentions really are. I don't think there is any easy way around this other than cut the tie if she's not worth the hassle. I know you are wasting you time by going on the date with her but you will learn something everytime this happens.

nova · 17-07-2013, 12:49 PM

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Is this not a cultural thing. I think everyone is forgetting this is someone who grew up in Asia and her boyfriend is in Asia. Not a girl from Bolton.

It isn't the same with European girls. I've never known this from an English or Euro chick. Have any of you? TV tells me Yanks do this too, but I've never known or heard of anything like this from our part of the world.

When I lived with some Chinese they said it was totally her prerogative for a girl to accept a man's invitation and his hospitality without it meaning anything, even though she knows full well it is only because he fancies her.

We talked about this in depth because one Japanese kid asked out a Chinese girl who he fancied and she said yes. They agreed to go to the cinema and when he arrived to meet her another kid came too. She was seeing the other kid and was simply on a date with him, which was paid for by the Japanese boy I knew.

We English in the conversation were disgusted at her behaviour, but the other Chinese there insisted that this was a woman's prerogative and totally normal. They are allowed to take the attention and gifts, pretty whorish. In general, during the time I lived with them, they described a very backwards and miserable societal system in their home countries. Yet they agreed with it and never questioned it and didn't understand when I questioned it.

I would totally have embarrassed that girl and any girl who might try to do that to me. I don't roll that shit at all. No verbal holds barred, I would have sent her home crying.

Peace,

kowalski

I agree. There does seem to be a pattern here. I need to nip this in the bud early enough with any given situation. I am expecting to escalate things to sex quickly within a couple of dates, or less... or else.

It ended with me telling her she could leave, with no pleasantries. Looking back I should have made it worse for her. It was obvious to me whilst sitting there hearing all her nonsense that she was taking full advantage of my feeding her attention, hence I got pissed off.

Perhaps I do need to spell it out more literally, that I am in no mood for wasting time being some sort of temporary 'provider'.

nova · **A Touching Story -** 11-08-2013, 04:51 PM

So last night I banged my second Korean chick. This is all thanks to a dude I know who rocks the streets in London doing day game, and who laid the foundations for me hooking up with this girl. Last Saturday he rang me up on the said girls phone, and told me he’d just approached her, and that she was visiting Manchester the following wkd, and if I would like to show her round. Naturally I said yes and fired over a few texts to build up the excitement.

Saturday evening I tell her I’m free to meet up and we go straight to my favourite bar so she can taste genuine English ale. We sit down and I’m there playing with hair and building the sexual tension. She tells me she has to leave for the airport at 4am, so I had to work fast. After 15 mins I make out with her, and chat some more. I bounce her to the second bar and we grab a cosy corner and sample some more ales. After some more kissing I tell her we should grab some food back near my house, ‘as it has the best food in my area’. We grab the tram back to mine and get straight into my bedroom. I stick on some music and get her to take shoes off. The idea of food is a distant memory as we knew why we were both there, and I bang her. She was fun, and Sid is a gent.

I'd been considering going longterm with one of my girls, but this has reminded me what I'd be missing. The excitement, the adventure, the fact that this girl is totally different to the others. There's so many girls out there to meet. Be good to meet some more.

nova · 09:34 AM

Bars I educated this girl in:

Bar 1: Common
Bar 2: Port Street

Preference in no particular order, but both with an awesome range of ales and cosy booth seating for the ladies. In Port Street I have also found the perfect descret spot for getting your hands down a girl's pants fast

nova · 04:59 PM

And so after a 4 month-ish exclusive relationship with a girl I am back on it once more, and very excited.

Yesterday I thus hit the streets once again. Did a couple of approaches and the second girl really got me into the swing of things again. She was very cold, and wouldn't give anything away upon me asking questions. I managed to plough through this and the interaction lasted a couple of minutes before she asked me if she could leave. I said 'yes', why?

Had a few other ok stops, got a couple of numbers, and then started to really amp up the sexual presence. One girl in Selfridges I really got nice and close to and we flirted like mad. Another girl in Aldi was similar, and I was holding her hand for 5 minutes while she giggled all shy. When telling me what she did for fun she revealed she hung out with her boyfriend. I then mentioned he wouldn't like he holding her hand. This then forced her to rationalise it all and the whole adventure was over as she pulled her hand away and we said farewell.

Today I had to go to the office to do some work, on the way there I clock and approach a nice German girl. Funny one this. She's happy with me getting right up in her face and is qualifying the hell out of herself, but her eye contact is all over the show. Perhaps she's shy in this respect, but warm to the physical stuff. Anyway, she told me to text her... I will.

BroadswordWSJ · 01-12-2013, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by nova

Yesterday I thus hit the streets once again. Did a couple of approaches and the second girl really got me into the swing of things again. She was very cold, and wouldn't give anything away upon me asking questions. I managed to plough through this and the interaction lasted a couple of minutes before she asked me if she could leave. I said 'yes', why?

What was her response?

Were you out for the whole purpose of running daygame, or other than having to work were you just going about your business doing other stuff as well?

nova · 01-12-2013, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by BroadswordWSJ

What was her response?

She walked off, as I had given her permission to. Next time I come across this situation I will say no.

It kind of relates to today with the German girl, as I told her/stated that we would go for coffee. She then asked, 'are you asking me or telling me?' I told her the later, then proceeded to get her number.

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Originally Posted by BroadswordWSJ

Were you out for the whole purpose of running daygame, or other than having to work were you just going about your business doing other stuff as well?

Saturday I was out for strictly day game, and ended up doing 6 hours solid. Learnt a lot. Today was just a girl passing on the way to work. She had a cheeky look on her face, so I had to approach.