honestly guys that is the best advice anyone could give I'm really glad I joined the forum and I will soon rewrite my profile and see how it works

I had a huge amount of sucess with PoF. From around Xmas to March i met up with and nailed over 10 different lasses from that site. It is an easy way to meet women but there are a few downsides.

Yes there are hot women on these sites and some are down to fuck but a lot of them have been fucked over in the past which unfortunatley leaves some of them batshit crazy.

You will also find yourself spending hours checking emails, sending and replying to them, which i think is detremental to your overall social skill level as you should be out in the real world approaching. I now see online dating as a bit of a lazy mans game.

For whatever my 2pence is worth about PoF heres are my Top 3 pointers;

1) You need to be good looking (or at leasy appear that way in your pics) otherwise you wont get a look in.

2) Be a twat!! If you send out an opening email never use the 'Hey hows u xxxx' shite send something different, i once used 'Man if we ever have kids they better not get your nose'. Girls on there get the same boring shit day after day on there, YOU need to be different.

3) Under no circumstances take yourself seriously on these sites. When it asked me what my ideal first date was i put this 'We'd go for a gruelling 5 mile run followed by a military standard assualt course. Following this we'd go to my boxing gym for a hard sparring session of solid 3 x 5min rounds. Topped off nicely with a medium cooked steak, 5 raw eggs mixed with Whiskey and finished off with a firm handshake.'
Whats weird is i got a bunch of emails off girls saying shit like 'aw i like my steak well done though' or 'pff your first date sounds too easy, il think of a harder one'.

4) Be interesting in your photos. Show your sociable side, show yourself doing any cool hobbys you have, Show some of the cool places you have been. However remember pointer 4 must be in line with pointer 1.

Remember that for every shag you get of advice from this forum you have to donate £5 to the site admin

Always the best advice from someone who is has done it rather than writes about it, great post and I'd only really add one more thing, don't waste days, weeks and months emailing.

Priorty should be to get her number.

It wasn't DJ Talent was it???

legend i will pm you the link

5) Avoid complimenting her on looks, this alone will make you stand out from the army of fawning chodes.

6) Beat the "Height filter"


I gave this a go when I first hit the single life. Much like the first poster, got absolutely no messages (apart from a couple of 40 something Ukrainians). Sent out loads and got no replies.

I got myself a decent profile blurb using Game strategy stuff, like people have outlined above.
Sent non-chodey messages, much like the fellas above used to great success

Nothing.

Put it down to being an ugly bugger, but...

Finally worked it out,

Only the girls that I had messaged visited my profile

My profile hadn't beaten their height filter.

Can't blame them, I was only searching for girls under 5ft 4.

Meh

Don't think hegiht is a factor in real life as i can normally charm my way around it.

But online, s'all a bit superficial at first
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[quote=Fresher;47537]Why do i find it so hard to get girls to reply to me on this website?


I`ve done some great work on Plenty of fish, i started off trying all the small talk and changing my profile to match theirs but that didn`t really work. I found it was best to write one message saying things like i`m big headed , over confident,etc , then put if this is not for you DO NOT REPLY! then go deeper i was saying things like i like getting drunks girls to kiss and that i`ve been arrested alot , then once again if you`re bothered my this DO NOT REPLY! After i put a load of dislikes, girls that wear up much make up and time wasters just on here for cheap thrill and dressing like their work on a street corner if this is you DO NOT REPLY and BLOCK THIS USER! I was getting about 7 out of 10 replies to all the girls i sent messages to and i only sent ones to the really hot ones..

Once i got a reply i sent back a message saying CONGRATULATIONS YOU`VE JUST PAST STAGE ONE, WOULD YOU LIKE TO ENTER STAGE TWO? 99% will play along, then they are hooked. say something like STAGE TWO WILL CONTINUE WITHIN THE NEXT 24HOURS keep sending out the first message by copy paste till you get a fair few to play with. Then reply with something like YOU MUST TELL ME 3THING BUT ONLY ONE CAN BE TRUE THE OTHERS MUST BE LIES, LOSER TAKES A DARE.. works a treat if you do read this or need any more help let me know..... but remember after the first few messages keep them waiting , never go to fast too soon.....

Here's why I'm fundementally against this sort of service:

For me, PUA is about building my confidence and social skills to the highest level. It's about personal development.

Dating sites simply hook people up, who get drunk, have sex and part company. Not only does this fail to advance you as a person, I believe it may actually distort peoples perception of dating and their beliefs.

A case in point- my mate lives with a girl who goes on POF all the time. She's looking for a LTR, yet often meets up with guys who she drinks with and usually fucks. Just the other day she took a guy to bed who forced her to do anal. And by forced i mean she was crying telling him no, yet he continued. Yep, there's a word for that.
I think that by opening her legs on the first night of meeting a guy, he's going to have little respect for the girl. She's just some 'easy girl off the internet'.

This does not seem healthy to me. You're getting sex without any of the important respect building social aspects.

If you're going to be spending time on dating sites, then why are you a PUA?