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Originally Posted by Tw1sted
Like anything it's all about experience.
For some reason, I started consciously started thinking about eye contact during conversations, which would put me into my yeas. I think it may have stemmed from confidence issues.
Confidence comes with competence.
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I will try and start to think about eye contact in future and see what happens...
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Originally Posted by kowalski
Make it a game for a bit.
Like, if you make early eye-contact with someone walking towards you in the street and hold till they break first, which all happens at a fair distance usually, they will then move around you and you can continue in a straight line. That's pretty interesting to do for a bit, I read about it in Keith Jonstone's Impro where he is writing about status (same as value).
Peace,
kowalski
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I will also try this, making it a game, I will also try the thing about making them move around me...
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Originally Posted by kowalski
Joining in - Has your friend introduced you? How are you all positioned?
Introduce yourself, call your friend out if he hasn't introduced you. Move so you are positioned equally and not on the outskirts of the group.
Is it this stuff, i.e. breaking in, or is it being able to segue from a coversation about their shared experience to something that includes your view that is problematic?
Peace,
kowalski
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My friend usually introduces me to female friends when he see's them, and I would also. But usually with lads, he doesn't introduce me. I will start to introduce myself. I always try to position myself within the group, nobody likes to be on the outskirts.
I do think a bigger problem is what you mention, trying to join in their private conversation and I do find this a struggle