Plenty of fish
Why do i find it so hard to get girls to reply to me on this website?
Im not a bad looking guy and my pics are not bad, i make my messages relevant to the girls profiles, and still no one fucking replies, very frustrating, any of you guys have better luck on that shitty website? |
Haha I just signed up to match.com the other day. I have to say that there isn't a whole lot of choice on there.
Basiclly, if you're profile and photos have enough DHV then you should be set and you should get a few women messaging you. But you will be making the first move alot of the time. Your first message should be 1 or 2 paragraphs and all the usuals apply: humour, confidence and interesting conversation. You should try and get them on the phone as soon as possible. Probably after a few IOIs. Maybe 2 messages from you should be enough. Use the phone to DHV a little more then secure a date. DON'T talk about online dating over the phone. This "online game" has it's advantages. It's easier and cheaper to name a couple. I haven't found it to be all that fun though. :\ |
Rules for online messaging.
Make it funny, relevant and/or interesting. In that order. If you say something that amuses them you're likely to get a reply purely because they want to laugh some more. Make sure your profile is well written, if it's not you're going to get a lot of looks at your profile without replies. Limit searches to people online in the last 24 hours, if they're not using the site they're not worth wasting your time with. I am not an aggressive flirt. This probably goes without saying but well-behaved men do better in online dating than aggressive flirts. The number one algorithm girls' brains are running is "creep detection". Creep her out once, in the slightest, game is over. My modus operandi was to take a genuine interest in her and befriend her. Some people you will be able to convert quickly, many you will NOT. Learn to judge which people you can escalate to phone quickly and which you can't, don't just ruin things with the people you can't, they just take a little longer to decide that you're not an internet weirdo who wants to rape them. Pof searches show the first few lines of the description. You can use this to grab attention, I used to use: A BIG hello to all that see this description... For Sale.. Rent or Hire, 1 MAN. Good condition for year. Good runner, but only when being chased!. Very good with children and animals, Blessed with charm , honesty and integrity. Can cook, clean, wash up. Alternatively to all of the above, you could just use it for a laugh as it can be relatively entertaining: HOW YOU MEET WOMEN ON OKCUPID : DateRape |
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I'm not out half as much as I used to be, might be tempted to take the facebook knowledge to this site. Sounds like plenty of fun.
Where did plenty of fish come from, last time I looked at Internet dating was back in my AFC days? Back then it was all paid sites like my sad friend.com. |
About the only thing I know of that site is that a mate of mine was on it and he fucked two chicks from there and they both turned out to be fucking mental headcases! Of course that may say more about my mate than the site. He wants me to go to an organised plentyoffish party with him! Guess it could be educational??
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Last proper girl friend I had was telling me how she had met a few guys off plenty of fish. I kept telling her how lame that was, what's wrong with going after someone you like in real life with dignity and confidence?
I'd feel a hypocrite if I went on there now |
im not on there now, long as youve got some decent pics up its usually pretty easy to rack up some shags on there and laughs.
I quite enjoyed mailing shit loads of local online chicks on fri and sat nights when ive come back from a night out - ive lined up some nice last minute shags with girls that way to round the night off. Think in total ive fucked a good 50+ girls off there in the past |
hi guys, im having trouble with my plentyoffish profile too i thought it was ok but obviously not :(
ok if you want a laugh here it is http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprof...8]cupidarrow74 martial arts, travelling, cinema, dining, cooking can anyone give me some good tips on how to modify my profile so i can get some chance on there :) |
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Instead try "Give yourself a minute to recover from reading my awesome, inspiring and lets be honest, pretty sexy profile, then hit the message button - but make it a good one" . |
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