Losing your virginity to a hooker was not in my "Secrets to Self-Esteem" manual.

Try not mentioning you're a virgin whilst you approach, socialise, isolate and escalate on every fucking girl you can, every weekend, every dating website, every speed-dating night, singles night.

Fuck you can probably find a virgin dating website, they've got one for aids victims!!

You can self sabotage yourself if you're really nervous about being a virgin and being shit in bed but if you don't mind then don't worry about it.

Getting laid once by a hooker isn't going to give you any confidence in the bedroom.

Find wings
Go out lots.
Approach
Socialise
Isolate
Escalate
Be fun, normal and cool.

I saw about 38 hot girls today whilst moseying around town with friends today. You have no excuses. Mix up going out lots with dating sites, I can understand being a virgin at 30 can make you self-conscious so dating sites might help you deal with the anxiety of it all.

But they are not a crutch, they are a supplement to going out and making it happen!

Agreed being with a hooker wont give you confidence in the bedroom. But it will
A. give you a boost knowing your not a virgin anymore!!
B. Try going out straight after you`ve fucked a hot girl guaranteed you`ll do way better!!!
I see it as a means to an end of this mental block or self saying "im a virgin" limiting belief.
Mentally you will now know your not some virgin that will never get laid. Which I imagine is how Broadsword is feeling right now.
Either way Broadsword you either need to say "im gona make this happen no matter what" or forget about it mate. Theres no easy way to do this believe me or everyone whos at home playing xbox all day beating their meat would be a pimp. However if you do it and perseve and take the knocks I promise you you will get what you want. Its upto you!!

I can almost hear the next excuse/complaint after this though... 'Oh, that didn't count because I paid for it'.

But surely the depression of being a virgin is rooted in the idea of not being able to get laid IOW you're not attractive/cool enough/man enough to make it happen. A hooker would simply reinforce the idea of "I cant get laid. . . I had to get a hooker to do it".

I actually don't know btw its just what I thought would happen. Maybe if he fucked like a hooker a week on top of going out that would help. As thats getting enough experience to be able to be decent at sex.


Just be sure not to hand over £15 to the first legit lay you get bro.

Well my point of view is to just get rid of the stress/worry etc of pulling a girl and not know wtf to do. A hooker provided you pick a nice one would be a lot more understanding and be a lot more willing to make you comfortable.
I know some girls who went back with guys and were cunts to them cos they were shit in bed, one girl literaly said to the guy half way through "ive had better fucks with my dildo" got her shit and went home.
Im not saying that will happen!! but fuck that could crush you if your sensitive or nervous.
You get a hooker itl never happen and you can probs learn a lot from em!!
I know I have haha

I'm not a virgin, & I've also never (knowingly) paid for sex, but if I was 31 & had never had a shag or a blow job I imagine I would get a sexy blonde bombshell escort to relieve me of what must be such a shitty burden, & why the fuck not?

You could die the next day but at least you'll have got the ride once. It will boost his confidence with women, of course it will because he will then be a "man"


Also, I'm going to do a search for a virgin dating site.

All this talk of hookers is making me consider a sex holiday to Thailand!

Ladyboy heaven

OP - so much good (and sometimes brutally realistic) advice has been offered here...the question is whether you are ready to accept it?

nope, its the stigma of actually being a virgin. U smell of it.

he can address the other issues when he can confidently say. IVE BEEN LAID.

he will be happy he did it