Losing your virginity to a hooker was not in my "Secrets to Self-Esteem" manual.

Try not mentioning you're a virgin whilst you approach, socialise, isolate and escalate on every fucking girl you can, every weekend, every dating website, every speed-dating night, singles night.

Fuck you can probably find a virgin dating website, they've got one for aids victims!!

You can self sabotage yourself if you're really nervous about being a virgin and being shit in bed but if you don't mind then don't worry about it.

Getting laid once by a hooker isn't going to give you any confidence in the bedroom.

Find wings
Go out lots.
Approach
Socialise
Isolate
Escalate
Be fun, normal and cool.

I saw about 38 hot girls today whilst moseying around town with friends today. You have no excuses. Mix up going out lots with dating sites, I can understand being a virgin at 30 can make you self-conscious so dating sites might help you deal with the anxiety of it all.

But they are not a crutch, they are a supplement to going out and making it happen!