Getting out of your comfort zone

[nova]

So, the past few weeks I've been all pleased with myself as I had a nice little things going with 3 or 4 girls all at the same time. This was all well and good and I felt I had a right to relax and enjoy it, as I'd not been able to chill and do this sort of thing (sex on tap) since breaking up with my ex.

However, it made me very lazy with regards to meeting new girls, and even pushing myself socially with people in general. I am also now realising that I want hotter girls in my bed, not just fairly cute ones. Thinking about why I got back into the game, it wasn't really about having quantity of sex, although that's kinda cool, more I want to be really fucking happy with the girls I have in my bed... not just wank off to the girls I want in my bed.

Something that really struck me was a girl I approached a couple of weeks ago. She was really hot, and she knew it. This threw me and I just crumbled placing her on an almighty pedestal. Then, when walking away I asked myself what the fuck I would do that for? I am also now beginning to realise that I will make lame excuses not to chat up hotter girls, i.e. she looks bitchy, she doesn't look arty enough, etc... all preconceptions, possibly false, but who knows until one takes action and talks to the damn girl?

Ultimately, these excuses are me protecting my ego. This mindset needs to be challenged and broken down, and at this stage, the only way I will challenge this is to talk to hotter girls more, rather than excuse myself from doing so.

[SmileyK]

Chanpion Mindset. Interestingly Julien (from RSD) talks about breaking the comfort zones in one of his latest videos