Agreed being with a hooker wont give you confidence in the bedroom. But it will
A. give you a boost knowing your not a virgin anymore!!
B. Try going out straight after you`ve fucked a hot girl guaranteed you`ll do way better!!!
I see it as a means to an end of this mental block or self saying "im a virgin" limiting belief.
Mentally you will now know your not some virgin that will never get laid. Which I imagine is how Broadsword is feeling right now.
Either way Broadsword you either need to say "im gona make this happen no matter what" or forget about it mate. Theres no easy way to do this believe me or everyone whos at home playing xbox all day beating their meat would be a pimp. However if you do it and perseve and take the knocks I promise you you will get what you want. Its upto you!!