Today was my first day game sarge of the new year i have had a lack of motivation recently with the cold weather and my wing is away travelling.

I went into town and got alot of aa as i hadnt done day game in a few weeks i just couldn't approach for a while then decided to ask a hot woman working in a shop for fashion advice and said did i look gay? and she laughed and told me i didn't. I done another two of these openers and just went blank after it and didnt keep the convo going apart from saying a guy tried to hit on me etc.

I also wanted to do a direct opener that i am now used to doing but i just couldnt bring myself to do it. On a positive note i managed to open 3 women indirect and make them laugh but didn't get any further. I was gona ask them their opinion on whether custard is better served hot or cold which i seen on the forum lol but just went blank.

I think today at least got me started in the new year and i can now go direct the next time im out and stay in the convos for longer. I think i need to get in a better state before i go out mabye listen to music or do a few weights to make me feel more energetic.

Since i've came back from canada i seem to be hitting abit of a dry spell after the good luck i had over there must have approached 6 girls on new years and got nowhere but i just have to keep plugging away.

A sticking point i've had is i always approach women working in shops and hardly ever normal girls walking around and i have never approached a girl in the street which i cant seem to be able to do yet.

I aslo avoid approaching women in groups during the day and i am self conscious of other people overhearing what i'm saying which is something i have to get over because it is limiting my chances.

Any advice Welcome

Great honest post mate. Few points,

Not sure about the lifting weights/listening to music thing. Its difficult to force state. Do more approaches and it will come.

Think you need to force yourself to do more approaches its not easy but its not hard either. I'm in the same place with day game.

Last night i went to a local club with a few freinds it's always a good night there as we always know alot of people there so its good social proof. At the start we sat and talked to a few girls who went to my school.

I chatted to a woman at the bar think i went in with a direct opener and talked for abit then took out my phone and said put ur number in but she said she didn't know it. i also chatted to an older woman at the bar who i wasnt trying to game for social proof.

My friends love dancing and one of them is a really good dancer which gets alot of attention. One thing i seem to be improving is when im on the dance floor i have started mirroring girls dancing making eye contact and taking their hand and dancing with them.

I done that with two girls and danced for abit one i tried to kiss after about 30 secs but she pulled away think i just went for it too soon then. I danced with another girl i opened directly on the dance floor and she told me that she was too old for me and she was 25 i told her that i was 23 but she didnt believe me lol. What i should have done was told her in a playful way that she was too old for me.

My dancing has got alot better aswell by copying my friends moves and i can see women looking at me when im dancing. i am not having much luck atm it seems to be when i drink i cant pull anymore. My best results have came when im sober does anyone know if direct approaches work when your drunk? i have been told before that they dont. And anyone that has any tips about pulling women on the dance floor?

My goal for the next month is when i go out i'm not gonna drink at all and go to acting classes.

yea dude i wudnt try direct when ur drunk, teling a girl she is most beautiful girl in the club or as i once said to a girl, "hellloi thinkur absilsabsolutely stunnig", when they suspect ur drunk, even if u can appear ok when talkin to her, chance s are she has noticed u already and is aware that u are drunk, so by goin direct it doesnt porvide any confidence factor or high value, which is normally associated with being direct, cos it is the alchohol givin u the balls to do it more than likely, as well as it gives the impression u are a stereotypical drunk guy lookin for some ass and think that complimenting a girl she will give u somethin in return. it doesnt work from my experience, i am aimin to try it the next time im out sober myself makin a point that im not drinking. anyway yea the key is to have a good time, and the dance floor is the place to get noticed a VERY good line i use when i wanna kiss a girl is " wats that look for?" "u look like u wanna kiss me" if she says no jus say u werent offerin u jus have that look" and if they say yes then go for the kiss.

the custard is used best as an initial opener to a multiple set of women.

the craziesness of it attracts a response... but its best with multi-set rather than single targets, because its a debate-generator!!!


but please please, use it!!! im really loving the custard!!!! lol

Yea im gona try the custard opener next time im out lol stay sober and do some direct approaches

Awesome night last night

Last night me and one of my mates went to my graduation we were suited and booted looking suave. We chilled at the hotel and had a few beers with a few mates from my course waiting for ppl to arrive.

It was a good crowd there with plenty of beautiful women around. Our group got presented with our certificates and i noticed a couple of girls giving me eye contact which i took as an ioi.

I took the lead and got our table up to dance a few of my mates and a couple of good looking girls so we got good social proof. We were dancing away having a great time enjoying ourselves i didnt really think about gaming.

I noticed a brunette giving me eye contact i smiled and gave her a cheeky wink played it cool and started to dance with her had abit of chit chat found out her name and a little about herself and kissed her and noticed a flash my mates taking pictures lol.

I stayed and danced with her and she introduced me 2 her friends i ended up going to a club with her instead of my mates as they wanted to go sumwhere else. We had a great time in the club and we found her mates outside and i suggested going to a hotel room which she was up for but she said i had to pay and i was like i dont pay for it lol.

Went to her mates house party she was cock teasing me unbuttoning my shirt and doing it back up again she told me 2 come upstairs and i went up and her mate kind of cockblocked me by saying what do you want from her do u want a gf or just for sex, i just said she was a nice girl and i will see how we get on we only just met like.

He then said we could use one of the rooms but she didnt want to seem easy infront of her mates. At this point it was like 6 in the morning i was getting pretty tired and felt like heading home but she was going to her friends house and i thought i may aswell stay out now its so late.

We go to her friends house were i just wanted to sneak away upstairs but again we talked to every1 who was there and drank vodas until about 7 in the morning then every1 went to sleep. Me and her were lying on the sofa in the living room and she woke up and we made out and had sex.

Had such a good time that night with good friends and i have found that if you enjoy yourself and dont think about gaming too much you will do well. Met a really cool girl aswell who i think i will probably see again.

I also heard this morning that my mate had pulled a girl that came to the grad with sum1 else who wasnt to happy about it lol a good night all round.

Havent had as much luck recently so was glad to get my 1st success in the new year and to keep moving forward

Last night

Last night me and my mate hit a bar and a club in town. He was supposed to be meeting a girl he had talked to online in the club. We chilled at the bar and had a few drinks and went to the club vip lounge.

I used a direct opener on a brunette upstairs who just ignored me lol so we went downstairs and my mate met up with the girl and i chatted to her mates. He was just gonna stay with this girl so i went gaming on my own.

Done another direct opener on a girl then walked off and started dancing on the dance floor and a girl just grabbed me and i started dancing with her i didnt make my move soon enuf and she walked off. Messed up their didnt act soon enough.

Had another interaction with a blonde who was standing with her freind told her she looked cute and introduced myself to her and my friend and talked for longer dint really build kino and needed a wing really to keep her friend occupied. Sometimes i run out of things to say ahen im drunk my mind goes blank. Mabye need to use a few openers.

Had another better interaction at the bar and moved on i then approached a brunette dancing at the bar told her she looked cute put my arm around her this time. Had abit of chit chat she told me she was too old for me and i said i could be her toy boy lol.

Danced with her and she told me it was her bday and i said i havent gave u a bday kiss yet and she smiled and i kissed her and danced with her for a while. After a while she was like weres ur friend i needed a wing really to talk to her friends and for social proof. And she said il meet u later on the dance floor.

I had a gd night approached at least 7 women with mixed results could have done better if i didnt drink as much lol. This has shown me the importance of having a gd wing and if my mates werent away for the wknd it would have helped me. Im also gona start using a few openers so i can get a good discussion going with groups of women. I thought of using the custard one but then stayed with going direct.

Day Game

I went into town the other day to do some day game i hadnt done any for a month. While i was going into town i came up with a new indirect opener which i thought i would try out. I managed to approach 5 women working in shops and told them that my friend is asking me advice on asking his gf of 3 months to marry him, and asked their opinions.

After the 1st one or 2 i was speaking more confidently and i started to make hand gestures aswell. Some of them told me my mate was fucking crazy and it got a good laugh. I think i need to open more i done 5 sets on that day which is more than i normally do.

I need to start opening women that are out shopping because i usually ask women that are working for some reason i get alot more aa over this and have only done it a few times.

Going out this weekend to do some direct approaches

Nice work Cass. Women shopping are tricky as they can often be in their own bubble. Bear this in mind and don't take their suprised reaction as disinterest. It can actually help as they will be offguard and you can take complete control of the interaction and their reality.