Great Time last night

Last night me and my mate went to a bar and then hit up a club in town. I Chilled with my mate and had abit of banter and when he went out for a smoke i tried my first approach. I approached a brunette saying i just had to come over and tell her she looked stunning and almost immediately she pointed to a wedding ring which was pretty funny and i chatted to her for abit then left.

I chatted to another woman again using a direct opener and it seemed to be going well and i danced with her but she went to dance with her friends. I went onto the dance floor and started dancing away having a good time and i seen a good looking blonde and i just held out my right hand and she took it and i spinned her around and started dancing with her. I dance for a while and kissed her and found out she was 37 lol and im only 21 but she didnt seem to mind.

I danced with another girl but she too for abit before she went back to her friends. My best interaction of the night was the next one i approached a woman sitting down and her two friends were dancing at the side of the table. I used a direct opener again with a smile on my face and she started smiling and i introduced myself and chatted said hello to her friends.

I had a gd convo with her and made her laugh and i gave her my phone and told her to put in her number and chatted for abit then left. I couldnt find my mate anywhere so i started dancing again and approached a blonde and started dancing with her but didnt k close this time.

I watched the video of natural Tim and i tried his advice of simply smiling at a girl and holding your hand out to her opposite side and usually they will take it and start dancing with you its so simple yet effective. my mate has a gf and wasnt gaming so i done pretty well without having a wing to help me.

Day Game on Friday

i Went into town on friday to do some day game then meet up with a freind. During the week i had been looking at philosophy by zan that said stop approaching women but stop by and celebrate their beauty.

I feel that thinking about approaching in this way from my experiences gives me less aa and i have the goal to make the woman smile so that i dont put too much pressure on myself.

I hadnt done day game of any direct openers during the day in ages so the 1st few approaches i decided to go in and tell them i just had to come over and say you looked fantastic today then wish them a good day and walk off.

I done 3 of these openers on girls working in shops afterwards i felt like my aa had gone and i was ready to stick around and continue the convo. I approached an asian girl working on a stall and told her she looked fantastic and chatted for a while she was quite schocked that i approached her.

I introduced myself and tried to guess were she was from and chatted about how she was liking belfast etc and asked about her job. I chatted for abit and her mate came over and i just said it was nice talking to you and left for some reason during the day i get self conscious chatting to a woman if her friends are there.

I approached a blonde working at a stall and went in direct and introduced myself my mind kind of went blank and i just asked her the 1st thing that came into my head what do you like doing in your spare time? a customer showed up so she said she had a customer and i left her to it. Looking back i dont know why i didnt wait until the she had finished talking to her customer.

I then approached a blonde girl who was shopping i hadnt done this too many times usually i approach women working in shops so this shows i am making progress. I went over and went in direct and i think i really shocked her she had a funny look on her face and i just bailed lol i think i could have stuck around mabye i shouldnt have taken her initial shock as a lack of interest.

I think i made good progress ususally it takes me a while to open but i done 2 within the first ten mins and 6 altogether next time my goal is to have longer conversations. I think i need to give more to the convos usually i ask them questions but mabye i need to talk in statement form.

I had fun today aswell it felt right and alot more fulfulling than asking randon bullshit openers that i didnt give a monkeys about!

Any advice welcome,

Hey dude, nice work, your plugging away and its getting you results.
I notice you keep getting told your too young... grow a goatee, that will put a few years on you.

This is hardly ground breaking and its a bit of MM (yuk) but it gets over the age gap nicely. Go kino and tell her whoa whoa whoa hold on a minute. count 1.. 2.. 3 and then go ok we're over it now and carry on as if nothing happened. I FT'd this a few times and it worked to bypass the ST.
You have to have some attraction/ rapport here for this to work or else it just comes off as wierd.

As for dance floor game, I believe Blanca gave me a copy of a PDF for dancefloor game. I ain't really had too much oppo to use it lately as I have only just recovered from breaking my hand and have not been in night clubs for a while. I used the dancing tactics only a couple of times and got 2 would have been lays if it wasn't for the logistics.
As I'm not great at verbal game or approaching bitch shielded chicks in night clubs, its gonna form the basis of my night game. The thing is you don't even have to dance well, I actually calmed down my dancing for this, its all about having fun. Can't remember the name of the E book but its surprisingly simple and so effective.

One thing it covers is calibrating escelation. I have had hot hook ups going within a minute before on the dancefloor even in my AFC days but have always escelated too fast and got blown out. This book has corrected my mistake literally over night. You really have to hold back from escelating and build up tension. Grab hips first, do a few spins, let go and dance on your own, make EC get closer grab hips again and escelate a little more at a time, then move to upper thighs etc... build it up over a period, think one step at a time.
It describes dance floor push, pull in the book which is actually easy to do as you are literally forcing yourself not to escelate quickly and you are also building sexual tension.
Going in for a kiss should be done later and a good test of if shes is game for action is to stick your knee out and go down low, if she grinds her puss against you then isolate and close
The trick is to hold back your urge to go caveman, its so, so, so damn tempting to escelate quickly as you take it as a massive IOI and think WHOO I'm in!
I always got buyers remorse when ever I did this, the key is to escelate slowly and smoothly. I've never had a chick escelate on me, its always down to you to escelate but never take a shortcut or you will get blown out. Has anyone else here tried the methods in this book?
I have to say it is one of the best E books I have ever read.

hey have you got the link to that e-book? I'd like to give it a read

Saturday Night

On saturday night me and a few friends hit a club in town. We chilled and had a few drinks at the bar i noticed a brunette standing at the side of me texting on her phone i smiled at her and told her she looked fantastic tonight and said her dress looked lovely.

I introduced myself and chatted to her mates one was small and the other 2 were alot taller and i made a joke about it but i think they didnt really get it lol and they started laughing i kinda ran out of steam and turned round to the bar.

After this my mates came over and were all excited saying i seen you talking to those women what did you say and all saying i was smooth even tho i didnt really do anything special quite simple of you dont approach you dont get!

My mates dont really approach that much so usually i just walk off and go and chat to some women. I approached a blonde standing by herself and went in direct and she told me she had a bf. I told her i didnt care and i had 2 kids.

She asked me there names and i said joey and rachel i named them after the friends characters lol. She found this quite funny and i chatted for abit and she said her bf was at the bar which i believed and i left.

I talked to another girl standing by herself saying whats a good looking girl like you doing standing by yourself? she seemed like she was in abit of a bad mood and the convo didnt really go that far and i left.

I then approached a blonde in a group of her friends and i introduced myself and her mate just pushed me away the harshest rejection i ever had i felt like just saying to her mate whats ur problem and talking to the girl again who seemed interested but i couldnt be arsed with the drama and left.

This didnt put me off after the initial shock i started laughing and went back to my mates and started dancing i approached a hot brunette dancing told her she looked fantastic and asked her to dance. We started dancing away grinding and i k closed i danced with her for abit went back to my mates and ended up going back again dancing with her later on. Looking back i didnt really have the intention to take her home as i didnt think she would share a taxi with me and my m8s. But i should have told her my intentions and projected a more sexual vibe as there was tension there.

I told a girl before when we were making out at a club that i knew she wanted me and she didnt wanna know what i was going to do to her and ended up taking her home. This is what i need to do more be more direct. I think i was abit to drunk that night which didnt help me as i went blank a few times and couldnt think of what to say.

I had a great time that night and k closed a hot brunette so i was happy. I have been thinking should i recruit my mates to approach with me or just go in solo i think i could do with a wingman to help me in some situations but my mates dont approach thta much and dont know about the game!

Any Advice Welcome