Could do with a little help off you guys with something. I am currently having problems when it comes to using condoms. I am seeing this girl, every time it comes to using a condom I lose it. I have gone bareback a couple of times, no problem. And everything is good otherwise during foreplay etc, its just getting the condoms on that is a problem.

I do find them to be tight so I am gonna go buy some ones that have a little more room before I see my girl again. I have used regular condoms to have a posh'un with before and its not been too bad which kind of makes me think it may be something psychological like anxiety.

Any words of advice? Similar experiences? Tell me I am not alone with this

i always get it, i dunno what it is, i think its the moment is gone!!! it is a moment killer..... plus girls are not overly active.. ur left to it...

if she was suckin ur cock then put it on u... it would stay hard..

women are just clueless mostly. ye thats right i said it. if i lose a hard on its her fault

Agreed. IMO, the key is keeping pressure on your cock. Recent example - the SNL bird this weekend really had to be told! Each time I was getting a new johnny on, I moved her hand to my cock. And she just held her hand there tickling my balls! "No, grab it!" Still just holds hand there! "Pressure!" I changed shape of her hand, moved her hand up/down shaft, she gets the message and complies.
(So, try doing that. TELL your woman. What is YOUR women doing while you have the delay to get on the latex? These girls are lazy)

I always set-up the following - before getting naked, taking the condoms out the box AND placing them on the nearest side of the bedroom cabinet. Coz the longer the wait to fanny about (e.g. where the hell are my condoms buried inside some hidden inner jacket pocket??! Damn!) the more moment-killing potential.

Or, find yourself a well-trained nympho who eagerly gets the condom and rolls it on for you while you hold your cock. Good girl!

if she cooked me a nice dinner, ironed my shirts, and then cleaned my flat too. Would be quality.

dude, I am right there with you! Condoms turn me off... and if I do say so myself, I'm pretty well hung and the Italian ones are slightly smaller, I've broken loads.

I tend to use them with one night stands, but if I know a girl and that she's not a slag I will go bareback.

I would never advise this but I think it is a very funny line from the Spike Lee movie Clockers, "Fuck it; born by the pussy, die by the pussy."

You are not alone, ive had the same problem

They're supposed to be tight - that's the whole point! You know what'd happen if they were loose? You'd pull out, and she'd be left with the condom inside her. Do you want to go leaving bags of ejaculate within your lady's vadge? I'm tellin yer, unless she's very understanding, that might seem a trifle impolite.

However, I do agree with condom related issues. Its hardly the best thing in the world is it. You're there with a smoking hot naked woman, and just as things get really good, you've got to stop for 30 seconds while you cling film your penis.

With a one night stand, sadly, its unavoidable. Its rather daft of you to take risks. With a longer term girl, its worth having a conversation with her about alternative forms of contraception.

The Alternative is the more risky version-- fuck her without a condom and then pull out and shoot over her face/ass/tits

Cheers guys!

@ Covert Ops - yeah I know they have to be tight but I am still going to shop around today for one that does not feel like it is trying to make a balloon animal out of me!

@ everyone else (minus kowalski) - its good to know its not just me, will take the advice on board.

I have had a LOT of bareback sex, i was always worried i might have collected somthing
So i got tested -- totally clean - all they need is a blood sample, no need to scrape the inside of your cock

The nurse said that they dont often get somone through with HIV

Its good to definately know you are good to go

Atleast you'll die happy. My friend once described condoms to his girlfriend as "You know when you have a shower in a rain coat..."