I'll never go bareback with a random or a one-nighter. One in three people having chlamydia these days. It's not worth the risk! I made that mistake during uni and having to make the best part of a dozen awkward phone calls was not an experience I'd look forward to again any time soon.

Neither do I fancy another walk to some fucking family planning clinic because you "assume" she's on the pill and you don't find out otherwise until the morning.

Yeah, I've learnt the hard way, but I've learnt.

I used to find party-hats a real ball-ache to get on, but I've found that the more you use them, the easier it becomes. Like anything else, it's just about technique. If you can master walking up to and taking home a complete stranger, you can sure as hell master rolling a rubber-band around Mr Happy.

i have been with shit loads of bareback, and know lads who have too... this may sound daft, but sumtimes i wonder if its like an advertising campaign for condom companies and pharmacutical companies... who really push the scare tactics...

meaning hospitals are forced to give them out free... making them an obligatory NHS buy.

Uranus?

If Girls are from Venus and Men are from Mars -- surely Babies must come from Uranus?

men are from Earth and women are from Earth (get over it).

Now that's just being silly. Stop being silly.

Get her to talk dirty to you. Works for me.

Rock n roll

Update: I am getting a lot better with the fuckers lol. Not 100% success but its not as much of an issue now. I think the main thing for me was getting over the anxiety issues. The girl in question has been my first regular sexual partner so I am a lot more comfortable in sexual situations now. I even used my Paul McKenna Instant Confidence CD (I owe a lot to that CD, highly recommend people give it a try).

The advice on this thread helped a lot too, much appreciated!

so what ur sayin is paul mckenna helps gives u wood!!