I'm not talking about pickup, I'm talking about people's state of mind when they are dealing with girls, particularly those who find it hard with women. I used to not take action because I thought a girl had to fancy me and select me for the way I looked. All I am saying is by not taking this mindset I am now better for it. It has nothing to do with me burying head in books, and less to do with pickup.

I now believe a girl is attracted to my behaviour more than anything else.

See this is the difference. This is the mindset I'm talking about. It's not who the girl wants to pull, it's who YOU want to pull. I think we’ve all seen a hot girl with a pretty ropey looking guy and thought, ‘How did he pull her?’ Thing is, there’s a reason, and it’s not his looks, or his cheap jacket.

Yeah and ur hopin on these ONE OFF chances that its gonna be u... well i think id rather groom myself and stay on the side of the odds... coz id rather fuck 9 hot birds out of 10 and leave the one off to u

Do enjoy

I will!

Look nova... i get that PUA is anti handsome, but u dont have to be naturaly good lookin to look good.

All im sayin is U RARELY see gruesome men with ugly women... so if anyone is working as hard as u guys are to build on inner game.. why not give urself a HUGE helping hand... bite the bullet and except 2 guns r better than one... and maybe a little groom time will help ur OUTER GAME

I think an ugly man has more options than ugly women, look at this way an ugly bloke still at least looks like a bloke, where as women considered ugly often have very masculine facial features although this look really doesnt seem to disadvantage butch lesbians.

i think theres a difference between putting effort into your appearance and "high, weight and looks" (topic title)

i assumed by the fact everyone has a go at me every time i mention grooming urself

Does a bear shit in the woods? Does a cat meow? The best PUA's use their looks as their peacock- big arms, chiseled jaw, douche bag hair etc. Women are just like men. They want to look at something edible, appealing and sexy. Is it the only factor? hell no. but women forgive you much easier when you are hot.

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