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nova · 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Zone

In my view someone that is not very socially intelligent is unaware of social awkwardness

The only problem I see with awkwardness is if the guy in question feels and looks awkward. This in turn will most likely make the girl feel awkward. This is down to many things, the biggest being the guys inability to believe he is worthy.

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Originally Posted by Zone

If there not aware of the problem, they will never learn from approaching... what i like about structured game is, it breaks down social interactions into an understandable form, for those that need it

How does structured game allow the unaware to become aware of these social inabilties of which you speak?

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Originally Posted by Phil

and stand by ur views and Smile with it JUST ENJOY SPEAKIN TO WOMEN without thinkin about it... coz after the first 30 seconds the fear goes, all thats left is ur opinion

I don't get why you flag up this advice by Phil as detrimental to anyone, even if the socially inept person you focus on does talk too much for YOUR tastes.

Jaz · 01-09-2010, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by nova

I am also interested in what you mean by 'social intelligence'. To me being social is something anyone can be.

This is a term I have been using of late - I quite like it.

What is Social Intelligence? - About Intelligence (UK)

Zone · 02-09-2010, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by nova

The only problem I see with awkwardness is if the guy in question feels and looks awkward. This in turn will most likely make the girl feel awkward. This is down to many things, the biggest being the guys inability to believe he is worthy.

Some of these social unintell people, are over confident, arrogant, which is one of the reasons they dont allow themselfs to accept theres a problem.

They dont have the necessary skills, its that simple,

Unconscious incompetence.

Things like talking to quickly,or quietly can be signs of low confidence and low self worth.

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Originally Posted by nova

How does structured game allow the unaware to become aware of these social inabilties of which you speak?

It doesn't, the reason why people go into self help is because they realize they have a problem.

Conscious incompetence.

Undercat · 02-09-2010, 01:20 PM

The mask is the actor.

DarrenDarren · 11:48 PM

The only thing that matters is your state of mind. I know this is what you want to hear- and it's actually true. I guess u r a bit over-weight or something? Doesn't matter... Your state of mind is all that matters. You can get any girl u want- u just don't know it yet - it really is as good as your best hopes... Come sarging with me and u will realise it's true... Always; always remember; perception is reality... PM me to go sarging in London.

... Just realised; I should probably break it down for u a little bit more. Essentially, height, weight and looks all give an advantage in one way or another, to give a man certain personality traits, which are attractive to women. However, it is possible to gain these personality traits without ever having height, weight or looks (to any advantageous extent) and still be extremely attractive to women. I am the expert at this- so everyone reading this PM me to go sarging in London...

Jeepster · 22-11-2020, 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by DarrenDarren

The only thing that matters is your state of mind. I know this is what you want to hear- and it's actually true. I guess u r a bit over-weight or something? Doesn't matter... Your state of mind is all that matters. You can get any girl u want- u just don't know it yet - it really is as good as your best hopes... Come sarging with me and u will realise it's true... Always; always remember; perception is reality... PM me to go sarging in London.

... Just realised; I should probably break it down for u a little bit more. Essentially, height, weight and looks all give an advantage in one way or another, to give a man certain personality traits, which are attractive to women. However, it is possible to gain these personality traits without ever having height, weight or looks (to any advantageous extent) and still be extremely attractive to women. I am the expert at this- so everyone reading this PM me to go sarging in London...

You are replying to a 10 year old post.

kowalski · 22-11-2020, 11:41 AM

It’s weird reading the old threads with all my posts and comments deleted and only appearing as quoted fragments in other people’s replies.

Peace,

kowalski

Dr_Zed · 22-11-2020, 06:18 PM

It's weird responding to a thread that a spam-bot necro'd :P