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Midas touch · 22-02-2011, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by -SUPERSTAR-

Absolutely nova, I believe in mutual relationships. it was just a gimmick, it won't change the relationship but it worked to get a second round.

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Originally Posted by nova

I guess the question is more about 'what is sustainable', as opposed to what creates a temporary emotional reaction.

Yeah, but right now temporary will do just fine until I can get to a place where sustainable is an option.

Phil · 22-02-2011, 12:23 PM

this is correct, if a mans emotions go unchecked its seen as weakness and we loose respect!

this is no way to live life, but it is a neccesity.

Phil · 22-02-2011, 12:24 PM

MUTUAL RELATIONSHIPS ARE CRAP!! women only stick around as long as they are the lower power, once they take the pedastal they RUIN the relationship!

Midas touch · 12:59 PM

Sometimes it seems that they won't accept anything less than perfect but we're just blokes and they are FAR from perfect.

Ahhh, you can't live with them and you're not allowed to chop them up into little pieces with a machete and feed them to your dog.

Snake Eyes · 22-02-2011, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Rebus

I cannot tolerate your petulance

Snake Eyes likes this!

Authentic!

Reeks of Rebus!

Midas touch · 22-02-2011, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Phil

No he doesn't trust her nova, which is why this whole thread has started.

I can't deny this; there has been a trust issue as she was seeing another guy when I met her. I was never bothered at first because I was the second guy and not the first.

Then she chose to be with me exclusively, but ironically that's when the paranoia kicked in. I would never normally have been as jealous as this so early on.

nova · 22-02-2011, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Midas touch

I Then she chose to be with me exclusively, but ironically that's when the paranoia kicked in. I would never normally have been as jealous as this so early on.

Perhaps this is be because you are concerned you might end up like her former no.1, ousted for a new no.2

Midas touch · 22-02-2011, 03:35 PM

They're always looking out for the better deal. They keep one eye on you to make sure you don't go anywhere and another eye on the door to see who's walking in next.

Y45 · 22-02-2011, 03:48 PM

i have to agree with you there Midas!...if your trying to get over this girl you need to get yourself to stop thinking about her so much. Fill you time up with other things, fun things, things that will make you feel good; go out with ur friends, join the gym (if u havent done already) and get yourself healthy. Gym in particular has helped me deal with the frustration that women throw at us. channel your frustratiuons/energy in the right direction.

Some of the guys have mentioned not to be available. i agree. if u are available, fake that your not... the funny thing is we all know the things we're not supposed to do. But when you're emotionally attached to a girl its like your starting all over again...we need to find the strength within us to act on the PU knowledge that we have...

i dont know if the above has helped, i hope it has.

Phil · 22-02-2011, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by y45

the funny thing is we all know the things we're not supposed to do. But when you're emotionally attached to a girl its like your starting all over again..

troo dat