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FR My weekend!

Hey all. Am still new to the PUA game but have had a weekend worth of fun and games to tell y'all about. Comments / Critiscism welcome.

Saturday - Band Night

Went to see a friends band. Afterward we went to a few bars with him and a few friends. There were a couple of girls there so I thought I'd run some game on them, more for practice than anything else.

I've recently done a lot of approaches to try and get that part of my game down but would always excuse myself after a few minutes and go approach another set. So I decided that I was going to try some DHV'ing, Comfort Building and such.

Girl 1 - 23, HB 6.5

She was sweet and was very open which I liked. I started kino early, touching her arm and such and whilst at first she didn’t respond a great deal, I persevered and soon she was touching me back. I started with Style's 5 questions game (she failed on Question 4) but refused to get me a drink for winning (which I expected).

I then ran the cube on her. The Cube is a GREAT ice-breaker and gets girls talking about themselves and justifying themselves to you. She was a 'Bar Wench' as she put it but she then started talking about her poetry. I was also experimenting with peacocking (I was wearing a v-neck loud and colourful t-shirt, with a crucifix neck chain, an earring and some trinkety bracelets) and she picked up on the crucifix which led to a conversation about religion and spirituality.

I definitely felt there was attraction from her by the end of the conversation and decided to give her friend a try whilst she went outside for a cigarette.

Girl 2 - 30'ish HB 5

Girl 2 was a lot more savvy. Didn't like the cube because 'People read what they want into these things' (which is true) and she also beat Style's 5 questions. Did lots of Kino and made her laugh a lot though which was cool but didn’t feel a great deal of attraction.

Then she drops the bomb - 'Have you read The Game by Neil Strauss?' I blagged a bit, told her I had, and that I thought that a lot of it was subjective and chatting to women is all about confidence. Made my excuses and left after that to go talk to my friends. A bit weird but at the same time flattered that she associated me with PUA. I must be doing something right.

Afterwards outside, I have lots of thumb wars with girl 1. Every time I beat her she slaps me on the chest playfully (but quite hard). IOI!

Her boyfriend then turns up (who she didn't mention during the cube or at any other point in the evening) Bigtime IOI! We all go back to their house and she sits next to me with her knees touching me the whole time. She then has a royal go at her boyfriend for drinking all her vodka. By this time I was working the entire room and having fun so was paying her less attention.

Overall I was quite impressed with how I attracted her. Need to work on my body language though. I lean in a lot, but to be fair Girl 1 was about 5' and I'm 6'2" so it was always going to be difficult! But she was nice and I know where she works so maybe next time I'm about I'll pop by and say hi and run some more game. Not going to do anything whilst she has a boyfriend tho. He was a really sound fella anyway!

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Sunday - Alcoblues and Internet Gaming

In my experience Sunday is always the best day for Internet game. Don't know why! I had conversations with 4 or so girls, and am still in contact with the most interesting 2. All this was on pof and I recently Alpha'd up my profile. I've totally noticed the difference. I get a lot more interest now which is great!

Girl 3, 25, HB7.5

I sent her a one liner and she got back to me in text speak. Not a good start. We exchange a couple of mails, before I get a shit test. This is the first time I've been consciously shit tested and made it my business to pass it.

Her: So are you going to by me a drink then?
Me: Haha! Are you broke or something? Usually girls buy me drinks sweetie!
Her: I'm not like most girls and you started this chat so you'd get in line best get in line.
Me: I'd love to get in line, but it's probably full of boring people waiting to buy you a drink and compliment you on your eyes. I'm better than that.
Her: My my aren't you cocky! I like it!

She mails me the next day and is different - she was drinking with friends I'm pretty sure they were egging her on. She's now articulate and classy I had tried to get her number on Sunday eve but she held out on me. We mail a bit, and I DHV my arse off about my life and job and pay her a couple of compliments with some subtle negging thrown in too (she's never had a mojito!). She asks if I'm on Facebook. I say I am but pretend I'm playing hard to get (the reality is that I don’t like adding people I've not met). She lols and says we're never going to get any further if we both play hard to get. I offer a compromise - I'll buy/make her a mojito on our first date if she gives me her number.

Am kind of regretting not adding her on FB. Am going to rectify that as soon as I can!

Girl 4, 34, HB6 (HB8 if you like curly ginger hair)

I'll start by saying this girl has the most beautiful curly ginger hair I have ever seen. I have a soft spot for ginger girls (don’t know why) and a soft spot for curly hair too (again, don't know why!). She lives miles away but I can travel and maybe even meet her in London. I get the name of the town she's from wrong (accidently) but make up for it by saying that I'll meet the curly haired ginger girl in that town who has her own helicopter and castle. We joke around a bit and make a plan to sail to Barbados in her yacht. I get back in touch the next day and ask her what she likes doing in her spare time. She replies with a load of boring stuff (as people do) I respond with the fact I like having adventures in my spare time and need to plan another! Does she have any ideas?

She asks me what other adventures I've been on! Talk about my recent trips away and also my planned trips to Plymouth and Ibiza. Ask her what she would recommend doing in London - she doesn’t visit London much. I suggest that maybe we could meet there and have an adventure. She likes the idea but has tonsilitis (maybe a lie - not sure yet!) so am going to suggest meeting next week.

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Inexperience! Kind of didn't know what to say after that and it seemed like a nice time to take a break too!

I wasn't actually aiming to number close either of them, just practice certain aspects of my game and getting that hook in! In hindsight I probably should have but I'm going back to the bar where Girl 1 & 2 work tonight with some friends so should see them again.