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The Rest of April - Sapmister's continued journey -
15-04-2009, 09:56 PM
Hi Guys,
Yep, I will be sarging 4 nights a week, and possibly do some day game on Saturdays (there aren't enough effin hours in the day man!). I will do some solo sarging, but if anyone wants to sarge with me, be my guest! Anyway on with the show dudes! Weds 15th April 2009 Tonight I sarged solo...sounds scary doesn't it, I mean how the hell can you open solo? So I did some mental work at the beginning.. I changed the term "I am going out sarging alone" to "I am going out to be socially awesome" That really helped in my mindset...I mean going out (even alone) to be socially awesome is as normal as baked beans, or rain up north (sorry guys, the weather up here is crap) Anyway, I went mainly to the Font..on the way I opened some guys about the footy, who's winning and all that crap. Did some fluff talk with some guys, just to get social. Then went to the bar of the font to order. The lady next to me ordered "sex on the beach please" I was thinking "should I say something?"...I spouted "sex on the beach? that's a funny name for a cocktail"...conversation initiated baby! Got into conversation for 20mins...I did not escalate one bit...I didn't use as much kino as I would (which isn't much anyway)...but the interaction was definately escalatable....in other words you more advanced guys could have easily closed that! Anyway she went after 20 mins back to her friends.... Next I got into a very quick conversation with 2 swedish girls....they were very non-reactive..I stayed, chatted for 5 mins then left. There is an awkwardness that creeps up when you're out alone....I need to get accustomed to that.... Anyway, popped outside, a cutey was holding a 21 bday baloon. I said "who's birthday?" she said "mine", gave here a hug and kiss on cheek...her phone went then...fine...... I went back into the font, to the downstairs bar...spoke to a couple of guys hanging out, had just been playing in a band, awesome! I said I needed a punk guitarist, etc...There was a 10 set right in front of us. I told them "do you know these ladies" they didn't so opened "what's the occasion?" is was the FB's birthday! I went over, hugged her and kissed her on the cheek..her friends said "picture! picture!", she refused...poor lady was paranoid about her appearance  Anyway, I bounced away then, it was getting late (10ish) so headed back home................. Conclusions and thoughts The first interaction with HB(sex on the beach), the conversation was even more natural than ever, I had been doing some "in the moment" meditations before (thanks Kowalski!)--but I was physically stopping my self from escalating, kino...it felt weird for me even to attempt it... Now I should think to myself "Kino, escalating and closing" is as normal as baked beans........... In fact I shouldn't even label it....I should aim to just "be"...............next instalment tommorow. Over and out 
    
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16-04-2009, 08:33 AM
Marky ... you've got some ballz man , and are the most determind murfuca i know .
You kind of remind me of frankenstein in a way , we started out with nothing , and slowly we have built this man out of different ideologys and practises and now we're hooking him up to the conductor ... WAITING FOR THE BEAST TO LIVE !! Soon Marky , we will be saying (as women fall at your feet in unadulterated adoration) HE'S ALIVE !!!! ALIVE !!
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17-04-2009, 07:54 AM
Thursday 16th
Out with Kowalski and Rood. Nothing much happened. Spent most of the time chillin. Opened 2 sets in total and winged 1. The last set I opened, there was maybe a misunderstanding with my wing with who the target was. Me being inexperienced, it disrupted my flow and put me into 'spectator' mode when we were both hitting on the same chick. Next time we are out winging I will make sure we have a code as to who the target is. Yeh these mistakes happen from time to time. Tonight plenty more people so more sets to open. Baby steps! Lets make a little challenge: Get one number tonight and use more Kino. No excuses! over and out
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17-04-2009, 05:08 PM
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18-04-2009, 11:42 AM
Rood man , that's a fun thing i do all the time , throw out the random as shit nicknames .... I recently gave a girl in a bar the name Tato for no apparant reason other than
"it's cool , be grateful" Plus throwing out a nickname like that just creates that 'in joke' thing you've got going on ...
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18-04-2009, 01:19 PM
Guys,
Let's continue with the show.... 18th April 2009: Very Chilled night...out with the boys! We went to see Jinxters mate's band at Moho's. There was Rudeboy, Retro Radio, Kowskino, Swipage and myself. Not much to note really. I initiated conversation by "clawing" girls. What openers did I use? I don't even remember! Didn't really stay chatting to girls for long, but a lot of kisses on cheeks and hugs (spread the love  )The problem I have in my head (please help me guys) is that I claw my target..but I feel uncomfortable about the other girl in the set (the majority were 2 sets)..sometimes I would feel sorry for the non target. I think it's all about comfort zones...yeh I've reached a point where I'm opening and kinoing immediately which is great...however, I should push that bit longer (a bit like doing that extra rep in the gym). I do need to experience being blown out more....so it will numb me and push harder (makes my "don't give a fuck" muscles stronger) On the plus side I was stalked my a fat babe who loved my chest and I shook hands with Bez!!!! (from Happy Mondays)....That's when I knew Manchester was a mental place to be in............ Next installment tommorow...... Will there be a Kiss close? F-Close? Who knows? Love marshmellows
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18-04-2009, 03:15 PM
Sapmi, Mate i really need to oppologise to you man. That girl who you opened when we were in the smaller area, HB -u - me and then she walked round you and opened me so it ened up with u - HB - me and i ended up chatting with her for quite a while and had a glourous opertunity to get her number. I should of come up with a way to push her back on you mate as i felt really bad about it. Sorry mate.
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19-04-2009, 02:33 AM
Saturday 18th April:
Funny night: Highlight: 1 #close, 1 near K-close (explained in a bit) Opened in excess of 30 plus sets. lowlight: A girl threatened to punch me, I blew a set out by telling them to "fuck off" Guys, Whats happening to me? You're making me into a monster! My theme was to get myself known, and to create chaos! I did not want this night to end , in the end we couldn't get into clubs because it was too late... Here is the story We went to the Northern Quarter.....I warm opened a few sets.....didn't really fancy many of the girls.....I'm starting not to open girls I don't fancy..(obvious eh?) But...this is weird, I opened every single girl I fancied! This was inconcievable to me a few weeks back! One set I opened in Trof, one girl(A set of 6 girls) I was speaking to kept telling to stop holding her hand...I complied, then kept on doing it...Weird, because she was talking to me for 30 mins  I attempted to number close...no can do..we moved on... I just kept opening...some blown out, some in set fora long time. We then went to the Printworks (Norwegian Blue)....man I became an opening monster............I only opened girls I fancied. Started club game, twirling and grinding..some didn't work, but....I twirled and grinded this girl I really fancied...she was loving it! But then she bailed?....So I went out to find Anthony.........this same girl came up to me and kissed my chest and started to dance with me again! I'm not gonna take this without a K Close!! So I grab her, grind...K close attempt one....gave me her cheek....then the other cheek.....NO!! I got her head and tilted towards me...she said quite disappointingly "boyfriend is at home"..........she then proceeds to film me dancing ...but shows me a pic of her boyfriend and her little boy Damn effin boyfriends!!!..........So I proceeded to Apocolypse close the 2 hottest girls in the club, with whom I did some grinding action earlier ME: how ya doin? hbtwins: fine Me: what you doing later? hbtwins: nothing much Me: wanna go back to my place for a threesome.... held held.. and.......damn flaked motherfuckers "we don't do threesomes" I kissed them on the cheek later on anyway.....so they weren't too offended  Next we bailed from Norwegian...we walked around in the printworks...opened a pair of beauties.....wanted us to come on to Pure........the bastards would not allow us in! The Kino I had with one of them was top!! I was pissed off man (damn bouncers!!) We proceeded back to Fallowfield...I open a pair of girls, where one told me to F-Off and threatened to chin me (the hazards of PUAing, lol) I then opened a set...didn't like their reaction so told them to fuck off (I realised they were ugly) Then we went back to Fallowfield...a blonde (I fuckin love blonds) asked for a light.......I had a lighter on me! (bought one for sarging!) She was part of a pair....Anthony attempted to get her back to my place (Project Manchester)..but she needed to look after her cold friend. We talked about sex and fried chicken....I number closed her, kissed her on the cheek and bailed............ I have never felt so on fire as much as tonight.........girls were smiling at me, guys were shaking my hand........I was having fun...it was awesome... Man if I was out for longer I am sure I would have proper K-closed.....Man I'm going to the Printworks next week............... What I have learned? I need to keep this cheeky form up........ hopefully it will be the same next week.........if not better.......check out the lay report soon!!!! Over and Out!
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