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dan300 · 10-04-2014, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Serendipity

I got home from work at 2am yesterday. My flight was delayed. I was up early but felt shattered.

Tonight I should have jsut had a quiet night in but when you know there are chicks just beyond your door it's hard.

My dick was hard, I was watching some porn. I decided to go out in the street instead of finishing off in front of the monitor.

Within a few paces of leaving my flat I passed two girls sitting outside at a restuarant, they were both good looking. There was a blonde one with her back to me and a dark haired one opposite her.

As I passed I thought fuck it I'm going to make a deliberate turn to get EC with blondie. But As I turned the dark haired one had turned around to check me out. So it must have seemed to her like I turned arounds to check her and she had turned to check me.

It was a percect opportunity to approach and I didn't take it. The night had it's ups and downs will report later) but I'm still pissed off about not going for that one. I'm so annoyed with myself that I didn't approach her.

The importance of this post is the final paragraph.

I've noted down on my daygame diary particular "fails" or things I didn't do or act on simply to engrain that painful gutting feeling into me.

I write it down as a reminder that I don't want to experience it again, rather than ignoring it.

Positive reinforcement as a result of negative non-action, or whatever. Something like that.

That's how I look at it.

Serendipity · 10-04-2014, 08:12 PM

On the same wavelength bro.

Serendipity · 10-04-2014, 11:51 PM

So went to brussels again. Met mate, he's married but I talked shop and he got excited. He then approaches a 3 set. Bit amatuerish. I commended him though for trying. I high five a tall blonde chick coming outof the ladies. Don't do shit much else apart from getting shit faced and talking to these Italian guys and an African guy with a suit on.

at meeting next day 4 hot women there and I hadn't even shaved. I manage to intercept the hottest one who is a swede. I give her an eye fucking and she likes it but tells me she has a husband. Cornered the finland chick and she was eye fucking me. She is also married.

sooo pissed I missed the other two. On train on way home eye fucked one of the cabin staff she somewhat succumbed. Made ec with about 30 girls and n way home. About 7 gave green light by maintaining or sming but didn't stop any of them.

stopped in a bar near home and approached. Got blown out quite bad on first one but unfazed. Kept going and had a vood night but didn't pull.

missed the other two

BroadswordWSJ · 10-04-2014, 11:58 PM

Can you expand on eye fucking?

Why did you not approach any of the 7 women?

Serendipity · 11-04-2014, 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by BroadswordWSJ

Can you expand on eye fucking?

Why did you not approach any of the 7 women?

didn't approachll due to AA.

the eye fucking is the one thing I'm good at. I can get a semi boner just with eye contact and my intent I very clear. When that happens I know it's on even if we don't exchange any words.

Serendipity · 11-04-2014, 12:08 AM

Eye contact is a massive part of my game

Serendipity · 11-04-2014, 12:13 AM

Where im very poor is in approaching and pulling the trigger

Serendipity · 11-04-2014, 12:17 AM

I'm finally finally finally realising. If you can shake off that niice guy shit you could get laid more than once a year.

Serendipity · 11-04-2014, 12:22 AM

The eye fucking is all good and well but it must be followed up with something physical. This is what girls are waiting for. They will not initiate. 99 times out of 100.

Serendipity · 11-04-2014, 12:23 AM

They might give you the opportunity but you have to take it