Stop posting and judging other people's journals, you should be posting in your own one.

He walked down the street past 2 girls and made brief eye contact with one then carried on walking.......and...so?

I could post in mine every single day with stuff, I've spoken to some women, been out with friends and done some work stuff since my last one but its nothing worth shouting about.
There was a girl next to me in McDs today who couldn't prenounce Fillet O Fish so I teased her about it. She laughed, we made small talk then I left. It's not something I would then come home and post about.

I wasn't judging anything, but fair enough it is his thread and he can post whatever he wants. I just thought it was a bit of a pointless post.

More happened but I got too weary to finish writing it up and went to bed.

I think it's good that Broadsword points this out. Maybe this will encourage Serendipity, and others, to take more action, rather than chatting about the what ifs.

Like I said, I do understand Broadsword's point but I feel that he missed the point of a journal thread compared to the likes of a Day/Night game thread. Though some of us including myself, do incorporate everything into 1 thread; my journal.

Journals are used as a diary of sorts where basically anything and everything is relevant whereas a specific Day/Night game thread would be used to post your specific antics.

I agree 100% that less time should be allocated to the what-ifs and more time allocated to taking action. Maybe writing about it helps people to analyse and move forward. I honestly don't know but for me, its more of a 2 second 'what are you doing man' thought and then approach or approach a girl within the immediate vicinity to affirm in myself that approaching is part of my way of life.


I think it's all about priorities and allocating the energy where its best suited. However, in a journal I have no objection to users posting whatever they deem relevant in their journal. 1 persons problems and their ways to analyse and improve could be totally different to the next person.

Your smugness is painful to read.

Just rallying the troops son

I think Serendipity was okay to post it, but my opinion is that everyone shouldn't think I'm gonna post this later. It becomes too pua-ish and you make this more serious than it should be, you won't get results. Just let life happen, if something cool happens post it, hence why I only write things with a bit of drama. Make your subconscious think it's normal for cool things to happen to you. But of course each to their own.

I went out for a drink tonight with a girl I met through tinder.

I messaged her lunchtime and we met tonight. I think it went pretty well considering I've not been on a date in years.

Was pretty nervous at first tbh. But we both relaxed into it after a while. I like her.

It's a start, things are finally starting to happen!

There's no better feeling than being balls deep in a girls and thinking "Just wait till I tell the forum about this"
That or make yourself last longer by mentally writing your field report mid coitus