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dan300 · 09-05-2014, 03:38 PM

Your opinions on the yad stop being creepy are completely irrelevant. You're men, I don't do it on men.

It's women's opinions that matter, & generally they really like it.

None of your stupid opinions are gunna put me off or stop me from doing it.

"Why on earth are you stopping hot girls during the day for eh? What the hell are you playing at!?"

Stop taking it all so serious.

YOLO

daleinthedark · 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Serendipity

If your single and the potential woman of your dreams is just about to dissapear into the distance and be gone forever, then you hjave to do something.

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Originally Posted by Serendipity

You just need keen vision to pick them out in time.

Is it woman of your dreams or hottest chick in a line-up?

I would also challenge the effectiveness of the YAD stop. Has anyone ever got laid from the YAD stop who hasn't had alternative interests? (i.e. non PUA coach)
I know lots of guys who have got laid from approaching girls they are attracted to at appropriate times and places but I'm yet to meet a guy who isn't a "PUA Coach" to have legitimate success.

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Originally Posted by dan300

Your opinions on the yad stop being creepy are completely irrelevant. You're men, I don't do it on men.

That's like saying I can't have an opinion on discrimination because I'm not a minority.
I have experienced a degree of success with women, other members have experienced success with women and that success came when we realised that YAD stops, routines and lines are like crutches, great for helping you to walk (talk to women) but terrible for when you want to run (get dates/laid on a regular basis)

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Originally Posted by dan300

None of your stupid opinions are gunna put me off or stop me from doing it.

"Why on earth are you stopping hot girls during the day for eh? What the hell are you playing at!?"

I'm not going to try to stop you from doing it but listening to both of your field reports where you're out for hours in the day doing YAD stops and haven't had a date from it yet is painful

I think day game is great. No problems there; I wish I had done more.

I also wish I had realised how weird it was when I was running routines on girls...

markuk · 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Serendipity

Thursday 8 May
It's hard to meet up with PUA mates and not talk shop. It's hard to do that and have us chasing women as well. It would be better if we had 'talking shop nights' midweek. Then on the weekends we just go to chase tail. We should partition our PUA talk from nights when we are interacting with women. Because it's important we do talk about our experiences (not theory).

The best place for intellectualising is the forum. The worst place for intellectualising is when
you're in a bar and there are women within your proximity.

There was a good video Tyler from RSD did (can't find it now) where he talks about this.

I generally don't intellectualise much on the forum, some may argue because I'm not an intellectual.
I know what I need to do and having a little think isn't going to progress this.

My feeling is you are too analytical on this whole subject, even by my geeky standards. I also think you need to have some other shit going on, I just get the impression you're focussed too much on this.

I would recommended trying some meditation, it has helped me, although I don't do it enough.

On the back of that I think it's great you did some approaches with no booze in your system and got your first cold approach number close.

(I should add - I was equally talking 'PUA - shop' when we were out and it was a mistake)

Mark

top-hat · 10-05-2014, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by markuk

The best place for intellectualising is the forum. The worst place for intellectualising is when
you're in a bar and there are women within your proximity.

There was a good video Tyler from RSD did (can't find it now) where he talks about this.

I generally don't intellectualise much on the forum, some may argue because I'm not an intellectual.
I know what I need to do and having a little think isn't going to progress this.

My feeling is you are too analytical on this whole subject, even by my geeky standards. I also think you need to have some other shit going on, I just get the impression you're focussed too much on this.

I would recommended trying some meditation, it has helped me, although I don't do it enough.

On the back of that I think it's great you did some approaches with no booze in your system and got your first cold approach number close.

(I should add - I was equally talking 'PUA - shop' when we were out and it was a mistake)

Mark

It's true y'all need some hobbies, wouldn't class meditation as one but it's also good

SmileyK · 10-05-2014, 11:42 AM

It's funny reading the journal to see the retarded shit girls say. Good for you going out sober, only thing is that you need to get yourself 'in the zone'.

Start having a bit more fun...think back to when we went out in Luton. It is hard to verbalise what I'm trying to say, but hopefully you get the meaning.

Shahanshah · 10-05-2014, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by daleinthedark

Is it woman of your dreams or hottest chick in a line-up?

I would also challenge the effectiveness of the YAD stop. Has anyone ever got laid from the YAD stop who hasn't had alternative interests? (i.e. non PUA coach)
I know lots of guys who have got laid from approaching girls they are attracted to at appropriate times and places but I'm yet to meet a guy who isn't a "PUA Coach" to have legitimate success.

That's like saying I can't have an opinion on discrimination because I'm not a minority.
I have experienced a degree of success with women, other members have experienced success with women and that success came when we realised that YAD stops, routines and lines are like crutches, great for helping you to walk (talk to women) but terrible for when you want to run (get dates/laid on a regular basis)

I'm not going to try to stop you from doing it but listening to both of your field reports where you're out for hours in the day doing YAD stops and haven't had a date from it yet is painful

I think day game is great. No problems there; I wish I had done more.

I also wish I had realised how weird it was when I was running routines on girls...

I think Dan300 might be on near-par with Stonecastle for lack of self awareness and lack of social/emotional intelligence. Read his journal, its just based on how he jumped in front of girls rather than the interactions themselves. All his success is based on who, where and how he jumped in front of girls.

You can't debate with that type of person. Dale, I do think you brought up a strong point that 'daygamers' forget that daygame is normal and can be cool, just not the way they do it.

Stein · 10-05-2014, 12:58 PM

With all this talk about Yad stops I saw a video of Yad at the 21 convention pop up on my Youtube feed. I can see why you'd want to take this guy's advice. What a raw fucking charisma machine. Women want him, men want to be him.

Shahanshah · 10-05-2014, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Stein

With all this talk about Yad stops I saw a video of Yad at the 21 convention pop up on my Youtube feed. I can see why you'd want to take this guy's advice. What a raw fucking charisma machine. Women want him, men want to be him.

Lol at "Daygame is harder than nightgame" like that cool customer breezes through the club pulling.

Serendipity · 10-05-2014, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by SmileyK

It's funny reading the journal to see the retarded shit girls say. Good for you going out sober, only thing is that you need to get yourself 'in the zone'..

Start having a bit more fun...think back to when we went out in Luton. It is hard to verbalise what I'm trying to say, but hopefully you get the meaning.

And the drunker they get the more retarded it gets.

I was out and sober again last night. It's great having a clear head but it's not so easy to let loose the way I can when I'm smashed and DGAF.

This is where the daygame should help me because I'm having to learn to work up my energy level and have fun, and talk to girls without my booze crutch.

Serendipity · 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by daleinthedark

Is it woman of your dreams or hottest chick in a line-up?

Not usually. Because of my age I tend to be going for women that maybe aren't what you'd consider the 'choice cuts'. When I was out with Johnny I approached couple of quite frumpy 30 something ladies. That said, a lot of women in their 30's or even 40's are still in trim and very attractive. I still like to approach the young hotties now and again to push out of my comfort zone. It's quite daunting.

I would also challenge the effectiveness of the YAD stop. Has anyone ever got laid from the YAD stop who hasn't had alternative interests? (i.e. non PUA coach)

I don't know what the fuss is about with this. It's not complicated, wierd, PUA patented of anything else, it's one way of going to talk to a woman.

I know lots of guys who have got laid from approaching girls they are attracted to at appropriate times and places but I'm yet to meet a guy who isn't a "PUA Coach" to have legitimate success.

My problem was I was unable to approach even at appropriate times. That's why I'm doing this, to get me over that fear.

That's like saying I can't have an opinion on discrimination because I'm not a minority.

your opinion isn't irrelevant but can only ever be biased from a man's perspective.

I have experienced a degree of success with women, other members have experienced success with women and that success came when we realised that YAD stops, routines and lines are like crutches, great for helping you to walk (talk to women) but terrible for when you want to run (get dates/laid on a regular basis)

I prefer the term 'training wheels' to crutches. Drink is a crutch and I don't use it in daygame. Routines and lines are more like shields that you hide your personality behind, because you don't truly believe it's enough. The 'natural' method gets away from that problem

I'm not going to try to stop you from doing it but listening to both of your field reports where you're out for hours in the day doing YAD stops and haven't had a date from it yet is painful

I think day game is great. No problems there; I wish I had done more.

I also wish I had realised how weird it was when I was running routines on girls...

And believe me it's painful to experience at times. At other times it's incredibly empowering and great fun. We're doing this by choice so we can't complain. If I approach enough I'm sure the dates will come eventually. It's a numbers game. The alternative for me is online dating and I've given up on that.