Sat Sarging

Met up with some of the regulars for some day game. My agenda for the day was to get stuck into girls other than Asians. After a few dud warm up sets, I met a very flirty blonder Romanian girl. She thought I was filming something and winding her up. I shrugged off all of this and remained in the zone. I then took both her hands and pulled her in more. After a bit more banter I got her number, and arranged a D2 for Tues night.

Sun Sarging

Met up with a couple of others and hit the streets again (the weather was spot on). I got a number off an Italian girl, but the most interesting set was a really hot English Chinese girl. I approached her direct, she smiled at this, then decided she would ring her friend. I stood there while she did this. Then, when she'd finished she told me she had a boyfriend and was 'taken'. Fail... next time I get that nonsense i'll be telling them to leave their phone call til later.

Now I'm stepping up the quality of these girls I have more challenges to face. I shouldn't see these challenges as negative, more a comment from the girl that she likes me, but is testing my resolve. These approaches could start to get a little more entertaining.

Instant date

About 4pm I decide to head to the city for an hour of day game, and to run a few errands. I get off the tram and literally within 30 seconds this well dressed beautiful Asian girl strolls past me. Straight away I turn and pursue her. She stops and we hit it off straight away talking about art, architecture and fashion. After 5 mins I decide we should move this into the bar, so take her to my favourite spot in town.

I grab a beer and we carry on chatting. She's absolutely loving me, and she is also impressing me. I start to escalate and hold her hand, especially when she tells me stuff I like. We leave and I grab her hand as we walk. After a bit I turn to face her and chat. Then I pull her in and try and make out. She resists, so I grab her hand again and lead on. We check out some architecture and I stop to tell her about one the buildings. I'm facing her again and pull her closer as we talk. I go for the makeout again, but she's shy about it still and resists. Again I grab her hand and lead on and we chat some more. I hug her goodbye, kiss her on the head and we part ways.

Later she texts me later to say to thank me, obviously my attempts to kiss her haven't gone unnoticed. I will pursue the makeout from the start the next time I see her.

Instant Date... again

So I head out again as the weather is freaking gorgeous. Again, I'm planning on getting a few approaches under my belt for practice. This time, I'm out for 5 mins and the second girl I speak to hooks straight away. We chat in the streets for a good 5 mins, and again the natural inclination is to take her to the nearest bar. We stroll to it and grab a coffee. In this situation there is little to report. We chat, it's all very safe. I am sat too far away and made virtually no strives to kino her. We then leave and I don't do anything to escalate at all. We say out goodbyes and I hug her.

Whereas initially I was pleased I had gone on another instant date, later on I'm sat at home feeling frustrated. I now realise why. I took no risks and may as well have asked her to be my friend. What started off as an exciting encounter in her day, which she openly admitted to, probably ended with her wondering if I had any balls to do much else about it.

What happened to me taking risks? I am playing things far too f*cking cautious!

Its good you recognise it and have set a standard for yourself.

Can always make another date with her too

Yeah, she seems like she's keen enough still to give me a second chance. Actually, one good point about that date was I felt I was screening her, more than her me.


Wed Uni Sarge

Head out with some of the boys for what is becoming a regular event down Oxford Rd. It's freezing cold but this doesn't deter those who really want this... no excuses. So in all, I do 6 approaches and grab 3 numbers. One Taiwanese, one Syrian, one Turkish... a nice exotic range.

The Syrian girl had to rush off to class after we chatted for 2 mins, but later I was walking along and she walked past me smiling away at me. I therefore reopened her, chatted some more, and got her no.

The Turkish girl told me she was on her way to a blind date. We chatted about how creepy that was and I got her no.

Nice day, had great interactions with all the girls.

So I arrange with this girl to meet up, and whisk her off on the tram to my part of Manchester to have a mooch in the charity shops. This provides much entertainment looking at old teapots. The sexual tension starts to build in the there with me physically escalating things and whispering in her ear.

I grab her hand and we bounce to a cool bar nearby for a brew and chill in the window seat. I'm holding her hand and escalate. She's looking at my lips a lot so I go to kiss her. She turns her head and says sorry. She then says she has a boyfriend in China, and that he won't come to the UK, so it needs 'sorting out'. I left it at that, but she gives the impression it's a relationship on the rocks.

So I then tell her we'll go to a cool bar near my house. It's cold so on the way there I tell her we'll grab a scarf for her at my house. Unexpectedly, she follows me up to my room and asks if she should take her boots off. It's a no brainer and I scrap the plan to hit the bar. I stick on Youtube vids and pull her over to sit on my lap.

After this she helps me cook and this is a good opportunity to escalate things further. I grab her and pull her in every now and again between cooking things on the hob. She's pretty comfortable with all this, but shy's away from further makeout attempts.

We end up on the bed after eating and watch some Black Books. She snuggled up to me and is happy for me to escalate stroking her arms, hair and thighs, but still won't let the kissing commence.

We get on really well, plus I do find her pretty hot... so I'm happy to be more patient. This girl is providing a good test of nerve with the constant brush offs, and my persistence is seemingly making me more attractive to her.

Wed Uni Sarge & instant date

I wandered down Oxford Road to hook up with some the regulars doing a few approaches as I made my way there. None of them really stopped for long. I then make it down to the main uni bit and start to flow nicely with all the girls stopping for a good chat with me. One of them was really into me and I had her in my arms. A makeout was within grasp, but she was concerned her her friend could see us from the cafe window, so I backed off. She then joined her friend in said cafe.

Just before I head off home I see a cute Chinese girl breeze past. Instantly she's hooked on me and I grab her hand and lead her for a coffee. She's comfortable with me holding her hands and was warming up to the more intimate physical stuff as the date progressed. We then hit the streets and I start my bid to step things up more, and make a 3 or 4 attempts to make out, but she was just not ready. I need to work out how to make these k-close attempts more smooth and not seem like a big deal.

Loving the way you're stepping up the day game, whilst not giving a fuck at the same time. I can just imagine these girls thinking 'WTF?!', yet also being attracted haha

Sat Sarge

Met up with a couple of mates in town. Today I felt great and I had no agenda or any expectations. I didn't get any numbers, and it didn't matter. Each interaction I felt absolutely relaxed and just vibed with the girl. Me and nearly every girl walked off with a smile. I'm starting to appreciate the meditative 'Zen' state of talking to girls.

Mon 1st Apr

Headed to the shops for a browse at clothes. Naturally I spot some girls. First interaction was the best of the day. I went in and spent the whole interaction assuming things about her, in particular that she would end up being a rockstar when she left uni. Barely any small talk. Really enjoying assuming stuff about girls now, as opposed to asking them dull questions. This was a lot of fun.

The other notable interaction turned into an instant date. It's now one of those things that just happens. We're stood there vibing, then the next minute I'm thinking, let's move this into a cafe/bar. Had a good time, went to kiss her a couple of times when I was showing her some architecture, but it was all 'too soon' for her. I'm still too awkward with the manner in which i attempt the makeouts. They can see me thinking about it way before I do it.