Who needs Market Street when you can game Canal Street

Booty call & Day gamin

The Korean girl was back in town with her sister and her friend for a couple more days before jetting back to Korea. She wanted to get me round for one final farewell send off, so text me telling me to come to her hotel after her sister and friend had buggered off to bed. I entertained her for a few ours then had to sneak out at 6am so the sister didn't find out.

Today I headed out to hit the streets once more. Man I was feeling jaded and half asleep. Most of my approaches sucked and all the girls would not stop. After a couple hours I finally got into the swing of things and had two solid interactions with two numbers to take home.

Something I realised today is that I can now clearly see where I am going wrong with most of the ones who won't stop and talk, and self-correct as the day wares on.

Ash.. I was wondering if you could summarize in a few points what has benefited you the most throughout your last few months of day gaming. What you have realized during your jorney that has really had an impact.

Benefits?

• By approaching a couple of hundred girls over the past 6 months I have dispelled any myth that it is 'weird' to do so.
  
• More than ever, I now realise girls love it when I take action.
  
• I now feel chilled as fuck in most social environments and with most people.

Impact?

• I now see that it is possible for me to lay a chick within hours on the first date.
  
• I now don't feel like I am gaming anyone. I am just 'being'. What I say means sh*t. My eye contact and being cool as fuck is everything. Now this is not an effort.
  
• Girls who come from a different culture where guys don't tend to sleep with them on a first date are open to interpretation. If you press the right buttons, all girls are open to what you suggest/do when 'leading'.

I like this bit, classy

The streets & a D2

Went out with some other gents for some day game biz. Like last Sat I started off pretty ropey and none the girls wanted to know me. I chip away, and a two set walks past with the cutest checking me out. They enter a shop and I follow them in. I introduce myself to them both and tell them which one I like. She likes this and we chat. I ensure I keep involving the friend and with a humorous edge keep things from getting too intense. I walk off with the target's number.

I then spot a nicely dressed girl on Market St. I go over and tell her so and she enjoys this. She is in a hurry as she wants to meet her friend. I delay this, but again she needs to go. She then tells me to join her and we walk together towards the store. We have a nice joke together and finally reach the store. I tell her I should go and she asks me for my 'card'. I tell her to get her phone out and we exchange details. I then say I'll prob see her soon, she perks up and asks 'really'? I then arrange the date then and there. Thurs it is.

I then head off for a D2 with a Chinese chick I met last Sat. We go for a couple drinks, get a bit cosy as I play with her hands across the table. We stroll back to town as she needs to go, hug goodbye and we make out.

I just thought I'd dig this post up again from last month (it feels like 2 months ago!). These comments now make more sense to me now I have seen what I am capable of, i.e. I can get laid within 1 or 2 dates. Back then, and beyond, I thought I had to work on these girls over several dates, particularly as I wrongly assumed the cultural difference was relevant. Thus I set a very bad precedent for someone looking for a bit of fun.

I can now see why some of the girls lost interest, it was either because I wasn't taking action when needed and/or they too were only after a bit of fun. I remember one of them even saying to me she wasn't after a relationship, but was there on dates with me waiting for something to happen.

Setting the correct precedent is now something I am becoming more mindful of, especially as one of the girls has become a regular lay, and I have no intention of making it more than this.

EDIT: Something that really brought this post to the forefront of my mind is when I am chatting online with a couple of the girls I met a few months ago, and have gone on dates with but not laid. As much as things have changed in my mind, the precedent has probably already been set in their minds.

A touch of day game and a D2

Went to town to buy some trousers. Was only there for half an hour as I needed to get back home. On my way out the shop I of course see a girl I like. I have to go and chat to her. I was chilled as fuck and had a great little chat with her and got her number.

Went on a first date with this gal tonight. Gave her a hug and kiss and took her for a tea. Great conversation and eye contact, but she was a bit cagey about the physical stuff. I made sure I didn't overdo it all and just made it lighthearted (but never stopped showing my intent).

Took her to another bar as I wanted a few beers and after a couple she suggested we get food there. I knew I wasn't going to get much in the way of physical stuff tonight so after 4 hours of fun I ended the night and said I was gonna go home.

I walked her back to her apartment block nearby and on the way she was teaching me some Japanese. I tried to stop her and square up to her 3 or 4 times but again she was cagey. Anyway, we had a a laugh with her teaching me Japanese and Chinese phrases and I hugged and kissed her on the cheek goodbye. Then as I was about to walk off she asked me if I'd remembered how to say good night in Chinese. I took her hands and lingered as she reminded me and went to peck her on the lips, but she gave me the cheek. We chuckled about it all and I left.

An afternoon of dates

So, I arranged some D2s with a Chinese girl I'd met months ago, and a Japanese bird I met last week. It was a bit of sham really. I got butt hurt when the first one told me she needed to go after 45 mins, plus I only tried to make out with her once and gave up... wtf!

Next the Japanese girl. Had a great time in the tea house with her, threw in a couple of compliments totally spontaneously and randomly which caught her off guard nicely. Trying to make this come across more authentically, than the jerky manner in which I have delivered them in the past.

Anyway, we left the tea house and walked, I held her hand a bit and she was comfortable. I then created a couple of opportunities to kiss close but pussied out... pretty much as I was scared of fucking it up as she was the hottest one I've taken out yet.

I feel like I've gone back in time a bit here. I thought I could just 'be cool' and the girls would fall into my arms. I'm afraid it's not so simple.

Date with a zombie set

So, after not seeing this girl for a few months, I reinitiated contact with her once again and went out today. I was still livid about my lack of sexual escalation yesterday, and looking back at my old reports, with this girl also. So, today I decided I would start attempting for the makeout after the hello hug.

So, I hugged her and chatted shit whilst holding her in my arms then went for my first attempt, and she gave me the cheek. I grabbed her hand and led her towards our first bar. I stopped her a couple of times and grabbed her waist and pulled her close, but she cheeked me again. After walking a bit more I stopped her yet again pulled her in and this time no such resistance. Then, the rest of the date went swimmingly, although I couldn't get her back to mine due to logistics.

Something I am now reminding myself of is, if they don't complain or run off as a result of my escalation attempts, keep trying. I also need to try not ejecting each attempt so quickly, and plough on then and there.