So you're gong to try to be more expressive by putting it on, using routines etc. Pretty much translates to not acting like you normally would, ie. not acting like yourself. So you plan to be more expressive by not actually expressing yourself. A way to rephrase 'I am enough' in this context is 'I don't have to do anything other than be myself to have sex with a lot of quality girls'.

I say if you've been getting results doing what you've been doing then try to push that even further. Don't worry about being edgy or arousing, assume you are anyway. Cut the crap away, don't add more on.


As far as the Kclose thing goes, I don't like the term 'close' in general. Kissing in a club is cool if that's what you want to do, and yeah it's fun sometimes. It's cool with me provided it's not OTT, younger girls especially try to eat your face and it's a bit cringe. Something I see a lot is guys who've been going out and don't get laid much but make out with girls all the time. Just bear in mind that it's not big and it's not clever, and it's not some vital step on the way to taking a girl home.

Simple a this, let him do his little experiment, until he comes to the same conclusion we all did

IT DOESNT REALLY MATTER WHAT U SAY OR DO!

if you stop making it about girls, and make ur life about you, they will come.

Girls will just magically come to you, if you just sit there and smile. Never thought of that. Someone field test this and report back. I field tested this for around three years, didn't really work. Maybe I didn't smile enough?

No smiling. This is confirmation you've not got it yet.

As contradictory as it sounds, it's the balance between attracting girls because you're such a well focused, confident and socially capable individual while still (often) making the first move.

Think of it this way; get your own little world straight, be happy and content with yourself. Then the girls that are worthy enough, you can let them in a little.

Your sarcasm is like the alter ego you're trying to create. Have you not seen there's a bit of a correlation with everyone's messages. I've come to the conclusion you either think you're not cool enough to be in the cool crowd or you're fucked up beyond belief. And I believe you think it's the latter and therefore not part of the cool crowd.

Either way we take it you're fucked up.

Please take appropriate action to rectify your situation

Useful links
Mental health facilities

I have to agree with this - I saw this thread on RSD Nation:

http://http://www.rsdnation.com/node/240705/forum

And correlate it to my recent change from 'game game game' to self-amuse.

By all means give the new approach a go, but it sounds like being yourself was working fine.

And as someone said before, the new approach might actually alienate girls who liked you for you.

Nobody is missing these elements, least of all you. Everyone expresses themselves to their friends or parents and displays all manner of emotions because they are relaxed and allow themselves to. You just need to allow yourself to behave in whichever way you wish in front of these hot girls, as opposed to being mr nice guy or neutral, which we know is just a front.

i never actually said them words, but in regards to your comment.

yes, they will.

but the difference is, you can sit smiling creepy at girls.

the other way is smiling coz ur having fun, not showing any interest in girls coz you can get one when u want.

Chill out man, this is a forum. Looks like you haven't been laid in a while, bless ya

Fairy tales, but lets agree to disagree. The majority of time you have to take action and be the man, not just let things happen.