As you guys know I go out alot, game, chat to girls etc. I'm probably the best at game I've ever been, and i'm about to get better...by...possibly becoming the biggest chode in the club.

Yes, I'm sacrificing my cool and friendliness in set, and learning how to be a bit edgy. I need to be more arousing in set, both in a positive and negative way. I'm naturally a nice person and not naturally arrogant, but, this edgyness is what I am missing. So, I will have to become REACTION SEEKING in order to internalise this new action. Once this is internalised, it will become an expression of my personality. So basically, leading and push pull is what I will consciously do in set. My results will decline and I will get blown out alot more, because I will be in my head. But I am chucking away my ego, because I know, once I get this down, I will need my own condom factory. Wish me luck folks...bon voyage!

Because throwing away, rather than building on, your positive character attributes is a such well proven strategy for success ....

There is no set. Its all in your head

also anyone who thinks a K close is a thing is still WAY behind.

Kissing a girl is about as much use as shaking her hand if it leads nowhere, a kiss isnt a close

Don't try and learn to become arrogant Mark. All you need to do is carry on taking action, like you have already been doing. The more you do, the more you learn, and the better you will become. Try not to over analyse one girl's lack of compliance/interest and think that you need to change your personality or your game. Not everyone is attracted to, or gets on with each other. On that note, becoming edgy or arrogant could potentially piss off girls that may well like you the way you are now! Just keep looking.

I get what you guys are saying, but i've worked hard in set the last few weeks. I very rarely bail on sets, and stick it through to the bitter end. I have observed some tweeks or adjustments I could make, in order to pull higher quality girls. Basically by making the interaction more expressive and emotional (verbally, physically, general vibe). My task has been to do this in every set. Doing this for one night already, I nearly kissed a 10, but I didn't act on those signals, I was doing my job and concentrating on the interaction (was it cool, emotional, fun?). For the first night, I seemed to do pretty well, so lets hope this internalises quickly.

Now i'm not going into set with the mindset of be cocky all the time! Just being able to use a variety of different arousals, to generate emotional states. Dare I say it, I may use the odd routine/story here. My openings, comfort and endgame are good, and will never have to use routines here!

standing in a club, disco necking, is vile. Kissing is pre sex for me, not to say this is right. but if your gonna kiss, at least do so in private

Damn, you're like one of my Chinese dates.

kissing a random girl in a bar, is not good for you, why not just say...

Ur cumin with me, and take them somewher.. Or take their number..

i cant understand what anyone would get out of a mid club kiss.

(i have done it before, i used to do it all the time in the day, now i realise how cringe it is)

(ive also woke up and had flashbacks of walking up to some random girl in a club, pushed her into a wall / cage thing & started passion kissin her in plain site of everyone... badly cringed for myself)

so ye, if anyone can shed some light on what u gain from kissing randomers? thought it was a youth thing

I just pissed myself. Lay off the drugs man.