this is true, but opportunities to take action dont come to the needy.

Sapmi, what makes you happy in life? I mean really happy, stuff that you enjoy doing?

Burgers, my crew, music, going out with my crew, travelling, meeting new people, sex with strangers, sex with prossies, Dr Who, Maid Marion (joking), and drugs......

oh and self development and growth, getting better at things and improving, which is what this thread is supposed to be about. Pushing out of your comfort zone and hitting new levels.

You make your own opportunities. If people are needy and lack abundance, its there own fault I'm about taking action and growth in Game. If you don't believe in game, I guess I'm on the wrong forum. This is a PUA forum right?

Darn, I've decided to become a PUA again....so kill me

its not anymore, i think its a POST PUA forum. one day mate, u will have an epiphany & realise somethin. not gonna tell u what it is.

lets just wait for it to happen

actually i decided i am gonna tell u what it is.

I am the most non-needy, fun, confident person you will ever meet out in the nightclub. This state of being comes to me when I'm out. So inner feelings wise, its game on. So, being into self development and pushing myself, I'm always looking to improve my game. So I am an avid supporter of anyone looking to improve and trying new things. I'm looking to improve and grow, I'm getting there, and will be even further forward in a few weeks because I know where to improve.

Now I think this is a good attitude to have. Growth and self improvement is always something to strive for, don't you agree?

Onwards and upwards.

yep... and im not saying its not, ur probly a really nice guy its just

There is no state, ur just like that, u just chose to make it that way on a night out.

There is no game. just carry on being that guy u like to be & ur 'game' is perfect. U will make mistakes but all this will do is allow you to learn how to be a better you.

play games and change stuff coz you want to know how people act in certain situations, not coz u wanna get better with girls.

GIRLS R NOT THE BE ALL & END ALL !

Yep, this is where we do not agree. I see where you're coming from, but..I don't agree. Also, this may surprise you, but I'm in this not just to get good with girls. Like:

"it would be nice to get good with girls..."...

my attitude is...

"i'm gonna get fucking awesome with girls, not just good"

I'm the kind of guy who doesn't mind fucking girls in brothels. OK, i don't need to do that anymore, but, I'm not just here for the love of the game. I'm doing this to get awesome with girls and have even more sex. So where we disagree is that I think, I can always improve, get better and work on my game. One final thing, I feel this will serve me very very well in later life and will stop me settling for anything that passively comes to me.

You said I will make mistakes? Are you secretly agreeing with me here Phil .....How about I learn from my mistakes? This is what I'm trying to say. I am learning from my mistakes, I've identified my mistakes, taking action and improving. So in some sense we nearly agree!

Sapmi, I am unsure how acting controversial in social situations is going to help you achieve the above or make you become great.

Surely spending time with your passions and becoming confident with your positive traits and reducing the impact of your negative traits would work far better as self-improvement, not only with getting girls but also with life in general.

To quote the most interesting man in the world
"Find out what it is in life that you don't do well, and then don't do that thing."

You don't get what i'm saying.....never mind, will explain in another thread. In a nutshell, it's about increased arousal in interactions (push pull for example), not just talking about my passion for big macs...(which I have told many many a girl)...negative and positive arousal, drip fed throughout the interaction....sorry i've gone too technical for some people. So I'm not saying be an arsehole throughout the whole interaction....thats boring! Its as boring as talking about my passion for licking bigmac sauce off her ass, constantly. She needs to feel your whole personality range. So, i'm just working on being a little bit more passionate in set. Thats all. Will have to think about it in set, which I was afraid of, however, it went better than expected Saturday. I think I'm internalising this quicker than I thought......my friends saw a nice improvement anyway....I was expecting a dip! All well in the house.