Having read on the pua art form from audio and reading numerous books on the subject and the importance of having inner belief i thought that a speed date would be advantagoius in meeting a woman!.

As the event began i had four minutes to wow the female in question i smiled and used the bubble wrap chat up on the ladies that i was attracted to which out of 25 women only 2 of them i found to my satisfaction as i came to the conclusion that the women came in groups so they would be gossiping on the chat up i wa using on them!

This put pressure on me and i hate to admit this did kind of make me feel cynical as most of the men that turned up were not much competition still the women were mostly looking extremely nervous looking which was very dissapointing also it was held in a hotel and they were drinking bottles of wine which made some of the women pissed and there tongues a little on the brutal side.

One of the women a fat disgusting looking as well that i would not entertain if she was the last woman standing was getting very abusive as i sat there and said nothing as i was drained by the mundane attempts of coversation asking whats my favorite film book etc i got peeved with the fat one and she said you have a major attitude i laughed at her and then she said i want to smash you in the mouth i was shoked to say the least!

I thought well i can experiment with them any how and used when they ask what you doing here and i repled im just standing around looking pretty. which many of them laughed at that one also i used i wonder what you would look like with plaster board dust in your hair! this one was very effective and got them laughing one asked thats a great line she asked were the dust comes from i replied use your imagination.

Well it was intence and i can say never again as i think the women were in my impression expecting a george clooney to turn up and i thought a quarter of the women were border line mentally disturbed also they all went home once the event had finished this pissed me off as they could of stayed and gave me and the others a chance to converse with them.

Well later im outside and one of the women asked did i enjoy i sad not really a sorryful bunch that cant even stay after well i thought that i would give it a go but never again.

I much prefer day game all night game at least you can walk away when you can see if they are not intrested or plain iggorant as four minutes is a hellish long time with someone with no sex appeal and have the personality of a damp dish cloth.

well i would not reccomend speed date to any one have any of you guys experienced the horrors of this?.

i went to a speed dating thing in bristol a couple of times and had a blast!!!!

it was amazing!!!!

SpeedDating. Ah, the land of the classy lonesome. Women flock to it, as they do to Salsa. "Organised" ways of meeting men so they don't seem like s!uts to themselves, and more importantly to their friends.

"Oh, I just met this wonderful man at Salsa dancing/Speed Dating the other night" is something they are much more comfortable with.

I've had mixed results with Speed Dating. The successes have come when I've escalated the same night, right then and there at the venue and taken her on an instant date to another bar close by after the event. None of this BS about going home, monkeying around on the keyboard to select "date", "mate" or "no" and then waiting like a pregnant nun for the results to drop into the inbox if she clicks on you as well.

If she does, it's chasing after the chick for a date for sure as heck if she's anything like a normal looking girl, most men that night would have clicked yes on her and written to her offering a date asap. That's Plenty of F!sh land. False hope, your laptop and vaseline in the end.

The times I didn't get results were when I got greedy and went after ALL the hotties who were out that evening. Never left with one 'coz didn't want to spoil my chances with any of the others. That sh!t never works.

Choose one. Be she the hottest. Her shields will be down. This is speed dating remember? She loves this "classy, ladylike way of meeting men." Move on her as you would in a club. Score. Nice guys there will be plenty. That's the place an alpha will stand out and take her home.

Can't wait for my first speed dating sesh in London. I almost never pay for it. Usually register on their sites and you get an email on the day of the event saying they've got one or two male places left for free. Chicks book up weeks in advance for this. Guys hold out "'coz getting a girl in the club is the way innit".

Be smart, get in there. It's a whole new market for your goods ;-)

All the best.

I did it once about five or six years ago, when I lived in Prague. I met the female organizer in an ex-pat bar. She invited me for free, saying I'd definitely get some yeses (sweet talker).

We got five minutes with each chick. I was ill with flu, unfortunately. At one point I was sat with a fat bird. When the bell rang, I stood up so fast to change tables that I nearly knocked over our drinks.

To my horror, I was the only one standing; the rest were politely wrapping up their conversations, as I should have been doing. The poor fat lass was red in the face. I felt bad for her.

In the end, I said yes to three girls. I saw one guy just tick yes to everyone, without even thinking about who was who. I got five yeses out of ten women, but only one was a match. She was an American girl and seemed really cool. We stayed behind and chatted for a while and then parted ways, agreeing to go on a date later.

She texted me, a couple of days later to invite me to meet her in some bar. She wrote, "You're not really my type but I just thought you were really funny." I thought that was tactless of her to say the least, but I'm sure it was just some lame shit-test, or way of bringing up her own value, because I've honestly told better than her to fuck off.

When I met her, she spent the entire evening texting on her phone, in the midst of our conversation. Needless to say, I never met her again, despite the fact that she sent me quite a few texts, asking me out.

This is so true; women love context. That's why I've mostly given up spending all my energy on cold approach sarging and now concentrate on building a lifestyle where I meet lots of women in a mutual context. Everybody can find something that interests them where there will be women involved.

I enjoy your posts piers.

Too funny

Thats a good tip about not paying for it will look into that maybe next time i will not be paying hell they should be paying me to show up maybe iwas unlucky all the crazies were let out that night cheers any how.

this is a great post. I went to speed dating once, and there were a few women into me, i could tell. but what i only spoke to 2 women after the event ...and i did not go all out on them either. come the next day i got no matches. lesson learn't is that they are very unlikely to input thier details in the next day, you need to get their details from them on the day!,


also i agree with you that getting greedy doesn't work. next time i will pick one women that my gut is telling me is into me and i will work on her when the event is finished.

I tried speed dating once, in my first week of my first year at uni. The girls were either hot and had fit boyfriends, or were ugly and had ugly boyfriends. I think they thought of it as more of a "meet and greet" type event. Either way they were all hopelessly dull - hardly a story to rub together. I wish I could go back and do it again now - I'd do what you did Piers, just start fucking with them for shits and giggles. For my money, there's nothing funnier than telling an uptight girl about the night a woman thought I was on smack or the fact my mate took a girl up the arse whilst I was in the room, and seeing her reaction.