I'll see if she opens me next time

just say to her

ur a flirt, are u actually gona do anythin about it

if she says yes ok

if no, tell her to give it a rest then

This post makes me want to vomit

AJay

This. Seriously. Everything changed for me when I just started assuming attraction. Even if you're mate's don't agree, don't loose sight of this.

And then, suddenly, she will (if she hadn't already realize you were attractive)

Usually when a girl likes you they make it fairly obvious.
They'll flirt, they'll even text you asking you when you are going to ask them out. In general they don't seem to be as shy about that sort of thing as some men.

Golden Tw1sted, golden.

It is Phil. But Camarda has a point. The first thing that pops into your head should not be 'does she like me?' This should not dictate what you do next. You should be going after what you want. Sure, if the attraction with the girl turns out not to be a two way street then move along. Next.

Ok i can see the mindset with this but i would like to make a point
Lets take a girl, you assume she likes you, so you invest time/game whatever in her
her actual belief is- you are a douche and SOO nothing like what shes goes for
So assuming you beleive she likes you, you continue to waste time with her and will never get anywhere

Surely its more efficient to be able to step back and IDENTIFY wether somone is interested in you or has potential to be interested based on signs, factors
and for you to then evaluate this and choose to invest time or move onto the next girl


Fake it til you make it, the golden philosophy
i agree with this and i dont agree with this

In my travels ive met guys/ pua dudes who are just plain weird and creepy because of what they look like, how they act and in my opinion will NEVER EVER pull some stunning chick
some have this self belief - everyone wants me - this actually fuels and retards their growth as a person
being able to step back and self evaluate in order to self improve is essential
mindlessly getting blown out and failing with girls and having a delusional belief they all WANT you is retarded
At some stage youve got to be able to go..right ok this doesnt work, oh hang on
i need to:
1)stop dressing like Jesus
2)stop targeting 6'5 blondes when you are 4'11 (or at least broaden your scope)
3)lose 4 stone and stop being a sweaty fat git - because generally hot thin girls wont go for it

you get my point

self belief not self delusion

I'v found nailing myself to a cross is a very good opener...

By all means step back. Just don't look for them to spell it out. Don't delude yourself, just believe you're the coolest muthafucker, and if she is interested then it shouldn't come as a surprise.