Online.. HB opened me
 

Hello chaps.

This girl is not related to my 10 girls field report that I posted last week.

The girl is Italian HB7, I met her over a year as she was a student of English at my school (I'm an English teacher). She's a similar age to me. She has a boyfriend. She mentioned him often at the time.
She left school about a year ago, but somewhere in the process she added me as a friend on facebook.

She occasionally liked some of my posts (especially music), as I did her. BUt we seldom actually spoke, other than a little banter about each other's music tastes.

Anyway, at Christmas she sent me a message "merry christmas bad boy x x x" on facebook.

I didn't really respond tbh. I saw her online yesterday and started a conv with:

AR: Why am I a bad boy?
HB: haha you still think about that? that is funny (Yeah I know, don't say it)
AR: OH yes, I sit every day and all night thinking about it (sarcastic brush off of her shit test)
AR: I'm a good boy
HB: hahahahahahahahahahaa
AR: No really, just ask my mother
HB: Of course your mother would say this.. anyway, why do you write in japanese on facerbook?
AR: I love everything about Japan except the girls.
HB: poor japanese girls!! hahahaha
AR: Poor Japanese boys! maybe a japanese boy is perfect for you.
(disconnected suddenly, 5 hours later I get)
HB: ahahahah i've just read it.... i love italian,english and spanish boy (note: I'm English)..but this is a very very long speech...hope you'll find your japanese girl!ahahahah have a nice evening! [;)]

HOnestly, I can't work out if she's interested or not... any thoughts?

any ideas for a clever response? maybe something like "how about two japanese boys?" or "I want to hear this "speech""

what the fuck.

she messaged you so maybe she's interested. she got u with that 'why am i a bad boy?' response u shud hav just ignored it n been like 'hey' or er, fuck knows. Just amuse yourself like - im into this whatever atm heard of it? im wank at fb chat anyway i just self amuse, if it makes me laugh ill carry on, if im entertained ill carry on, but dont go chasing this bird n trying to think of all the correct responses, there arn't any.

Lmfbo :D

Q: "does she like me?"
A: "Yes"

You can refer to this post whever that question pops into your head. The fact that all women want to fuck you is a fundemental belief that you must build. Any woman that claims not to want you is either in denial or thinks she can't have you.

this is my fave post on this forum

Thanks... I suppose sometimes I need to be reminded of this belief :)

I spoke to her last night also. On the whole it was good, but then right at the end she said "my boyfriend should kill me for this conversation". I may have minorly fucked up here, by saying "he probably knows you talk to guys, but just doesn't do anything." she was like "naaaa."

Not sure if that was rationaliisation (ie. putting the "blame" for a flirtatious conversation on me, therefore off of her), or she legitimately felt guilty and is gonna cock block next time. I'm hoping on the former.

I feel after reading this that you are looking into the whole confo/flow way to much

She could just be having some playful banter. Girls like to flirt for the sake of it. No impact on you but id still take a step back

ye sometimes girls Boyfs neglect to flirt with them!

in turn they look for it elsewere.

wether they peruse is a diff story

AR:Hey how longs it been since you saw me?
Lets meet up for a quick drink/latte and catch up

HB: (positive or negative)

Bin her or meet for date, stop wasting your thought process on her