Amen that man!

"fake it 'til you make it".

Thanks for the feedback guys, whether positive or negative. I suppose I know deep down the correct answer, it's I needed a 3rd opinion (or perhaps just someone else to say it).

We know how women are. In terms of facebook game, if you send a message to a girl who considers you a "friend" (code for not a love interest), does she reply quickly? Fuck no. She answers your questions with one word answers. If a girl responds every time, quickly and with comical and fairly well thought out answers, and also answers/ questions that are challenging to you, she must be at least partially interested. I'll probably need to use a couple of boyf destroyers though.

I tend to be quite ruthless around women and this stance also loses me potential lays but ive always considered my time and valuable - so if it takes 2 weeks of chatting to get a girl in bed and 4 dates, i wont even begin, heck even if it takes 2 hours of chatting before i ca get a number i`ll bail
So i`ll always lay an initial foundation or as in with your case the foundation was already there so i would step up and ask her for a brief coffee/drink and if she denies then id bin her and move on

remember, you are BORG

[HOMOSEXUAL MODE ACTIVATED]
Some guys get really self conscious when girls give one word answers and take ages to reply.. Happens to all of us ( not me because im fucking awesome )

I also think that its worth noting that Reflex is one sexy slice of man..so if some women are behaving like this towards him ( hard to believe ? ) ..dont get so down about it when it happens to you.
I like the BORG scenario Reflex suggested

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Now for me to man up again. think ill get drunk later and play poker while watch some sort of physical sport.

absolutely I can see that delusional self confidence is better than insecurity but I'm wondering...

is there a next and better way of being which comes along beyond being delusionally self confident?

Good question, and the answer is yes.... it's a question of "fake it 'til you make it".

The boys are right

a matter of weeks, wow ur a quick mover... it usually takes months to be a girl

i cant agree with this, this is the mentality of a lurker or worse a rapist. attraction is a 2 way street

If she's 'opened' you, then close it by asking for the meet.

If the answer is yes - all good, go from there

If the answer is no - move on and find another

Just looks to me like she's liking the attention....so call her out on it!

hmmm, I suppose that the frame of "i'm choosing" is the right mentality. but you should not move in unless she has sub conciously demonstrated attraction